THE SOUTH’S BIGGEST JUSTIN BIEBER FAN
By Andrew Biggs
Her name is Arena and she accosts me on the front lawn of the Songkhla resort.
“You’re Andrew Biggs!” she cries. “I used to watch you on TV when I was a little girl!”
Yes, dear reader, I am blessed to be greeted with such a comment, though it is very much a double-edged sword.
While it is nice to elicit a reminiscent smile, that sword is also rusty and painful as it plunges deep into my ego, reminding myself that this woman is all grown-up now, and if she enjoyed me as a “little girl”, then indeed I am not the spring chicken I used to be.
Sheepishly Arena asks if it is possible to get a photo with me. I wonder if my “yes of course” was way too fast, as is usually the case with ageing delusional spring chickens accosted by the real thing.
She is with the young hotel PR manager who will take the pic. Arena stands next to me, smoothing down her dress and trying to stand as tall as she can.
“I know, I’m too short,” she says.
“No you’re not,” I say. “It’s just that I’m 186 cm tall. Anybody next to me resembles a dwarf.”
“Yes, that’s right. I am a dwarf.”
“No that’s not what I meant to –“
“Okay, the both of you, smile!” says the resort manager as she holds up her tablet and snaps a picture of Arena and me.
“I’ll be uploading that to Facebook right away!” Arena says with the eagerness found only in an 18-year-old. “My friends will be so jealous!”
She rushes over to look at the picture. The winning smile turns upside. “Oh no, no, that will never do. I look so fat!” Delete.
“You’re not fat,” I say as Arena resumes her place next to me.
“Yes I am,” she says. “And that pic made me look even fatter. One more time … please!”
“One … two … Go!” says the resort manager, a joke that Thais used to make often when taking photographs (a reference to the airline One Two Go, a joke you don’t hear that often these days owing to a One Two Go plane crash at Phuket airport in 2007, rendering the airline non-existent).
Arena is short with eyes that resemble acorns, a round face and a gorgeous smile. People in the South of Thailand are a little darker than their compatriots to the North.
She is pleased with that latest picture, as pleased as an 18-year-old can be about a picture of herself when she is bombarded with TV advertisements telling her only tall light-skinned thin people are beautiful. She is none of those things, but she exudes beauty and the seeds of poise already at the age of 18, more so than any skeleton I’ve seen on a Sunsilk ad.
Arena is at the hotel as an intern. She’s in her final year of a hospitality degree and this requires three months’ slave labor at a hotel. Excuse me, work experience at a hotel. Arena’s into her third month and loving it.
“So you’d like to work in a hotel after you graduate?” I ask, warming to Arena’s smile, not to mention her enthusiasm and innocence.
She nods. “Well yes, but I don’t think it will happen. I have to look after my mother. She’s all alone when I’m here. I could never leave her alone for a long period of time.” This is said without the slightest hint of regret.
I enquire as to siblings, but they have all married and moved away having started their own families. Arena is the last child, and the onus is on her to be a constant companion to her sick mother, who lives 150 km away. I have no idea where her father has gone.
“So how does your mother manage without you while you’re here?” I ask.
“I go home every weekend,” she says proudly, and I imagine little Arena sitting on those rickety old inter-provincial buses chugging 300 km up and down the highway each weekend.
I launch into my spiel about the necessity for her to explain to her mother that she needs to gain a career and experience, so that she can provide for her mother comfortably in the future. Arena nods, but like so many others before her, I suspect my sage words of advice are falling on deaf ears.
“I think I’d miss her, too,” says this little Songkhla pearl. Her cellphone springs to life; her ringtone a Justin Bieber song. When I later ask her if she likes Justin Bieber, her face gets even more excited than when she spotted me on the lawn, which is probably healthy.
“I LOVE Justin Bieber!” she squeals. When I explain that he’s coming to Bangkok next month for a concert, she gasps and those acorn eyes turn to paste. I promise that if she can get herself to Bangkok, 960 kilometres away, I’d buy her a ticket, which is not on the cards since 150 kilometres is already a long distance for her.
It is time for Arena and her manager to move on. I say goodbye, and I am aware she has put me in a good mood.
Later on in the day I run into Arena again and she asks for another photo since the one on the lawn had her squinting and she “still looked a little fat”. Lightening creams have a lot to answer for in this country.
“Did you mean it about the free ticket to Justin Bieber?” she whispers in between photos.
“Absolutely,” I say. “Just make sure your mother approves.”
And Arena was gone.
That is where we have to leave her, dear reader.
Short, dark-skinned Arena, radiating beauty, worried about her weight and height and skin, obsessed with Justin Bieber, and at one with her smart phone. She could be a teenager from anywhere in the world, and with her ailing mother’s best interests at heart, she is the kind of daughter any parent would be proud of.
And with the exception of her round face and almond eyes, she was covered from head to toe in her hijab.
Little Arena comes from the heart of Yala, one of three provinces where Thais, both Muslim and Buddhist alike, rip each other apart on a daily basis with bullets and bombs, decimating families and rendering them fatherless, motherless, or even obliterated altogether. In the name of religion. In the name of politics. In the name of a separatist state.
Whatever. I can only pray Arena’s rickety old bus sticks to the main roads.
And while we consider the situation in those three southern provinces somewhat distant and alien, this week I came face to face with the goodness, the aspirations and even the fan-crazed devotion of a typical teenager who could have come from anywhere in the world, save for the clothing.
She reminded me of the goodness in people wherever they may be. So let’s pray for peace in the South, while I quietly pray Justin Bieber gets to see Arena at Impact Arena.
By Andrew Biggs
There is an ad on Thai TV at the moment for a skin product that whitens your armpits.
That’s right. Your armpits. It’s an add for a roll-on deodorant but the main thing is not that you smell nice. Rather, your armpits will be white.
The first time I saw this ad, I immediately took off my shirt and examined myself before a full length mirror. Dispelling immediate thoughts of starting a diet on Monday, I lifted my arms to see if indeed I had black armpits, and whether they were unsightly.
Thank goodness there wasn’t a camera in the bathroom. But it was one of those moments that ad agencies should be congratulated for – they have created a brand new insecurity for me to spend my money on.
The TV ad begins with a stick-thin but beautiful Thai teenager in a terrible quandary. An allegedly handsome Thai teenage guy has walked past and noticed her armpits are … dark.
That’s what she gets for ignoring the recommendations of the Thai Ministry of Culture and choosing to wear a spaghetti-strap tank top. If only she’d been wearing an ankle-length long-sleeved traditional Thai dance outfit on the skytrain that day, the guy would never have noticed.
Whatever. Her armpits are dark, that’s all that matters on the TV ad. She may as well have buck teeth and a bung eye. But thanks to some revolutionary new roll-on deodorant, her armpits are now white and her life immediately changes for the better.
I’d like you to pause for a moment and look to the ceiling as you ponder exactly in which situation is a Thai going to show off her armpit.
If I hadn’t seen the ad I’d be hard-pressed trying to work out when exactly a young Thai gets into situations where she has to raise her arms above her head, revealing the terrible secret under her arms.
You are doubtless smarter than I am and thought of the two situations the ad shows us – one is on the skytrain, where Rake Girl sullenly holds the plastic strap, thus revealing her cursed armpit, as the cute guy with the light armpit fetish wanders past with a disapproving scowl.
You can see it in his face: “No sex with her tonight … she’s got BLACK ARMPITS.” Then, after se has used the product, we see her raging away at some concert by a Korean Ken Doll, and she’s throwing those arms about, revealing lily-white armpits, proof that indeed all you need is to be white and light underneath your arms to be beautiful in Thailand.
If ever there was evidence Thai society is degenerating into madness, then here is your proof.
How did we get here? When was it that skin care company executives held a meeting and discussed the next part of the body where they could exploit our insecurities? Between the legs? No, that may go against Thai culture, which forbids acknowledging the existence of procreation. What about the armpits? Now there’s an idea!
It has always been a personal mission of mine when teaching English to explain that the oft-used “black” and “white” skin should in fact be “light” and “dark”, and while we’re at it, how about laying off this belief that light skin is good and black skin is bad? We in the West have gone through that and believe me, the results aren’t pretty.
There’s a big black hole in the Thai education system that avoids the subject of discrimination, or at least the notion that skin colour should not be a factor in determining who is beautiful and who is not – or, as it seems to be the case here, who is good and who is bad.
For every Thai who says “We are all Thais” there lurks feelings that people from the North-east, by far the more colorful and fun part of Thailand, are inferior to the rest because of their “black skin”. The North, however, is different. Thai men prefer Northern ladies because they have “white skin”. There is a universal confusion among Thais about how strange it is that western men love the Isan girls … how could they? Their skin is black!
The answer lies at Surfers Paradise, of all places, where I grew up.
It was there, back in the 1970s when we were more interested in KC & The Sunshine Band than melanomas, we stupid white folk stretched out on the beach for hours in the vain attempt to get a suntan, or as the Thais would put it, black skin. Because of this, one in three Queenslanders get a form of skin cancer but hey, a small price to pay for being beautiful.
And so, over in Australia, fat white Aussies are trying to go dark, while darker-skinned Thais long to be light. What’s the difference?
The difference, I suppose, is that we are taught that skin colour should not be a factor in determining one’s worth. Now whether we decide to follow that or not is up to us, but at least there is that attempt to educate. I don’t see that anywhere here in Thailand.
I have to admit I got a bit of a shock about skin color beliefs in this country when I first arrived. The popular Thai word for a person of African American heritage used to be nigg-ro which you still here sometimes, an appalling amalgamation of a word which I correct whenever I hear it, whether it be from the mouth of a tuk-tuk driver or a khunying.
Back in 1989 when I first arrived here, the leading toothpaste of the day was … DARKIE. And just in case you didn’t get the meaning, there was a picture of a smiling black African straight out of the Black And White Minstrel Show. I was so flabbergasted I immediately snapped up a dozen and sent ‘em home as Christmas presents.
We skip to more recent times and what is suncream in Australia is touted as skin whitener or lightener in Thailand, despite being the same product. Ads for these products bombard Thai TV sets with the clear message that it’s good to be “white”.
The ads are akin to the slimming centers’ Before and After shots. Dark-skinned pretty girl has a life of parental rape and brotherly incest – why else would she have that sullen look on her face? Thank goodness for Ponds! Praise you, Revlon! The girl is now white and happy, frolicking in Siam Square with Thai guys whose hormones are simply raging for white.
The black girls are at home in their bedrooms with the lights off, modern-day Janis Ians, cheating themselves at Solitaire.
Let the youngsters have their fun. If white armpits is the fashion of the day, then good luck to them. And at least that girl in the ad got her guy. She can look forward to a long, happy life in a relationship with a guy who gets off on armpits. Be careful what you wish you, nong.
AUSTRALIA, AFTER THE COMMERCIAL BREAK
By Andrew Biggs
I am watching the most amazing thing I’ll see on TV for a long time. Those aren’t my words; they are Ken’s.
Ken is a rapid-talking over-joyous man on the wrong side of 50, displaying signs of extreme teeth bleaching along with a probable background in used car salesmanship. He is about to reveal to me something called “nutrient infusion” on live television.
“Now watch closely Janie,” he says to the tall woman standing next to him. Janie wants to reply but she’s helpless against Ken’s verbal tsunami. “You’re about to witness nutrient infusion! It’s gonna boggle your mind!”
He flicks a switch on a gadget that resembles an oversized bullet containing fruit. There is a loud whirring sound and in a split second, that fruit is a river of centrifugal juice.
“Didja see that Janie? Did ya? Those infusion blades go at 20,000 revs per minute! It transforms ordinary foods into super infusion foods!”
Ken’s eyes are ablaze. Janie is teetering on orgasm. There is an energy from these two that could only be derived from nutrient infusion … or a few quick lines in the green room before going on air. I suspect the latter.
I’m sprawled out on the morning sofa, remote in hand, my mouth well and truly agape but not owing to anything those infusion blades have liquefied. I’m aghast at the ghastly state of Australian television.
I am back home, dear reader, although only for a week, returning to Brisbane and my ageing parents who have various health issues, none of which could be adequately cured by nutrient infusion.
The last time I was here the Australian dollar was worth more than the American one, making it the most expensive place on earth. Eccentric, flamboyant Uncle Andrew living the envious life of a high-profile Bangkok celebrity suddenly turned into embarrassing poor cousin eating Mama noodles in the Queen Street Mall.
Thankfully the Australian dollar is now around 70 cents to the US dollar and things are more affordable but not by much. Yesterday I caught a cab home from the city and in the time it took to sneeze the fare was already $25.
I used to be hyper-critical of Thai TV, with its cheap soaps, juvenile game shows and merciless advertising. I used to get on flights back to Australia thinking: “Thank goodness. Back to some decent TV.” How condescending — and wrong.
Australian commercial television has surely superseded Thai TV in its banality. Take Ken and Janie and their glorified blender. Morning TV is riddled with such “segments”, not “advertisements.”
Australia has grown slicker, more commercial — and definitely a lot bigger around the waist. Perhaps Ken’s only mistake was to demonstrate his nutrient infuser using fruit; had he used cream, sugar and chocolate, Australia would go ape over it.
“Warm Donut with a Teasing Dollop of Gelati” was a sign I saw in the Queen Street Mall yesterday, proving we have gone way past a simple donut for a snack as well as summarizing the physical appearance of the average Australian these days. And what’s with the “teasing” dollop?? Exactly what is that dollop teasing, other than your heart and arteries?
The direct result of Australia’s national corpulence can be seen on television.
The week I’ve been here the idiot box has gone nuts over The Biggest Loser, a TV show where four grossly overweight families jostle – or jiggle – for the top prize.
I was mortified. This is not simply an hour-long program once a week. It’s on three times a week in prime time.
The weekly climax is when these morbidly obese people strip down, stand on giant scales amid sinister music and long, drawn-out shots of the humiliated contestants, until a slender blonde bimbo congratulates or berates them on how much weight they have lost.
I watched this segment and felt the same as I would if I got caught peeking through a keyhole in a public bathroom. We humans are doomed and the evidence is clear – the destruction of our natural world, and the TV show named The Biggest Loser.
The biggest controversy on The Biggest Loser — other than the love child carried by one of the hard-faced female trainers, sired by the already-married male trainer who goes by the single name Commando – is a team of three sisters where the thinnest is 130 kg. Using accents we call “bogan” here in Australia, these girls demonstrate a very strong argument for the pitfalls of the Australian education system, not to mention euthanasia.
Here’s an example of what one of the sisters said, word-for-word, while performing one challenge:
“Aw come on youse two just gimme a break will youse? I can’t do it! I can’t do it I said! Youse are shoutin’ and yellin’ and screamin’ at me but youse don’t understand! I can’t do it! So youse can just leave me alone alright?”
Australia is not a stupid country; we did, after all, get rid of Tony Abbot. In fact we’re a pretty intelligent and prosperous country (one in 20 Australians is a millionaire, according to one report right after Ken and Janie).
And yet we are transfixed with imbecilic shows. I saw one that features Australians sitting and watching their favorite TV shows. Yes, that’s right … the camera is trained on couples, families and friends, sitting in their E-Z-rockers, resembling warm donuts with gelato dollops, making comments on any of Australia’s 16 talent shows, 23 cooking programs, or the fat chicks on the Biggest Losers. So now we watch people watching TV. I swear … the end is nigh.
The world is reeling with some pretty big stories such as the Syrian refugee crisis in Europe and the ISIS threat. And Australia? Here are the top three stories that captivated Australia this week:
1. A grandfather spent six days in the Australian outback surviving solely on eating black ants. The media have dubbed him “The Ant Eater.” It’s the perfect Aussie news story because it’s about food. “Janie, 3.5 ounces of black ants provides 14 grams of protein,” a happy morning hosts informed Janie, who is interested but nowhere near the level she was with nutrient infusion.
2. A Queensland politician was caught “sexting.” A constituent asked for information on an administrative matter, and he replied by sending a pic of his genitals. Twice.
3. Prince Charles and Camilla are coming to Australia. Their itinerary does not include Victoria or Queensland, which has caused a ripple the size of the Syrian refugee crisis in Europe. “Come to Melbourne ya slackers!” is the solitary sound bite Channel 7 used for this story, spoken by somebody who is supposed to represent the feelings of the Australian general public. Are we allowed to refer to British royalty in this manner?
Morning TV also assembles panels of “experts” to comment on stories. One morning there was a report that suggested homework should be abolished for primary school kids. A worthy discussion topic – so why did Channel 9 invite the weather man, their leggy female news reader, and a motivational speaker with only the top half of his body intact to discuss it?
(The motivational speaker was the worst – born without legs, he sat on the couch supported by his arms, his only contributions being feeble one-liners about him getting “legless” the night before and his arguments “not having a leg to stand on.” Steely knives, come hither … put me out of this torture!)
This afternoon I hop a plane for the serenity and sensibility of Bangkok. Farewell, beloved home country that obsesses over black ant recipes and fat girls. Farewell Australia, where Ken tells me a device called nutrient infuser is going to be the most amazing thing I’m going to see on TV.
You know what? He’s right.
BREAKING THE BANK LINES
By Andrew Biggs
This is the sign, prominent and loud, that pounced on me as I strolled past Bangkok Bank this week.
“PLEASE GET A LINE,” it announced, stuck to a glass window, behind which a bank teller, as sullen as he was youthful, sat with a face like thunder.
My right hand twitched, wanting to reach for my top pocket where a whiteboard marker nestled, so that it could change the N in LINE to an F. Because that’s the kinda guy I am.
The sign both worried and comforted me.
Worried, because what is it about putting the English more prominently than the Tagalog and Thai? Are we westerners bigger line-jumpers than those two?
This was not Silom or Soi Cowboy. This was near the Khlong Toey slum on Rama 4 Road, a tract of Bangkok not overly frequented by native English speakers except, of course, for hotel managers and embassy staff visiting their dealers. So why was the English more prominent than the Thai? As for the Tagalog, I can’t imagine the friendly Filipinos being line-jumpers.
Nevertheless the surly young man was making a point. For goodness sake, foreigners, form a line will you? That in itself is a good sign for it shows banks are at least making an effort.
When people ask me what big changes I have seen in Thailand over the past two decades, one of them has to be at the banks.
You should have been around here 20 years ago.
Those were the bad old days when there was an 18-month wait to get a telephone line installed, and going to the bank was like pulling out your own toenail with oversized tweezers, something I do regularly just to remind myself of how awful an experience it used to be.
Twenty years ago, going to the bank required a bankbook, a pen, and a copy of Crime And Punishment.
To make a transaction you filled out forms in triplicate, placed them in your bankbook and took it up to the counter, behind which sat dusty middle-aged men and women tellers in faded light brown shirts and nylon slacks.
You put your bankbook in an old rusty wire basket, already full of other bankbooks, and stood back. And waited. And waited.
There was no central basket. If there were four dusty tellers there would be four rusty baskets, and you had to take your pick.
You never knew if the bankbook under yours was a simple withdrawal of 400 Baht to pay the Burmese maid’s monthly wages, or some businessman wanting to close his account and open another one. The former was a five-minute job; the latter required a tent and tinned food and War And Peace (if you were more than half-way through Crime And Punishment).
Now and again, one of the tellers would pick up the basket and flip it over.
Slowly he would go through the pile of bankbooks, calling out your name when he got to you.
What a nightmare. You couldn’t even duck out for a few minutes for an ice-cream lest your name be called and, upon not replying, your bankbook was jettisoned to the very top of the new basket that had yet to be flipped over.
It was hot and there was no air–conditioning. Heaven help you if you’d eaten a bad hoi tod the night before. That happened to me once. I remember using all the will power I could remember from my Uri Geller phase to control myself as waves of nauseating spasms engulfed my body. The bank bathrooms were in sight but what happened if I ran out there and my name was called?
When the dusty man finally did call your name you’d crawl over to the teller on your knees, like an impoverished upcountry maid does as she approaches her fabulously wealthy khunying boss in Thai soap operas. That’s how it felt, anyway.
The teller worked with all the speed of an ailing snail. Now and again he would get up and disappear from his desk. Attending to critical bank business? A cigarette break more like it.
Another thing that retarded things even further was line jumpers … men who never crawled up to the counter. Rather, they marched in with their shoulders back and smelling of Brylcreem.
They slammed down wads of bankbooks and chatted openly with the tellers. Nobody dared say anything for fear they were somebody with a good surname or carrying a gun. But they made the wait longer, and to this day the smell of Brylcreem makes me want to reach for Dostoyevsky.
In the mid-to-late 1990s banks started to toy with the idea of making people stand in line. I remember wanting to dance the Macarena, big at the time, when I first saw one in a bank. We can thank the tom yam kung economic crash for that, after which foreign banks were allowed in and – gasp – the locals were exposed to strange never-before-seen things like ubiquitous ATMS, teller efficiency and standing in line.
No more rusty baskets. But like public restrooms in this country, the idea of a single line for all tellers was way off. Instead we had four lines for four tellers.
I would choose teller number three and sure enough, Murphy’s Law, I was right behind the Yaowarat grandfather depositing his sack of one-baht coins that required counting.
So things are much, much better when it comes to banks. The tellers aren’t as dusty as they used to be, while finally we take numbers and are called forth, not by curmudgeons, but a friendly, slightly erotic-sounding female computer voice.
As for the sign with the wrong English I saw this week … that story has a happy ending.
I returned to the sign the next day to take a photo of it, and the same youthful teller was sitting there.
Upon seeing me, he ran up to me with a big smile. It turns out he wasn’t such a surly young man after all. On the contrary, he was keen to know what was wrong with the words and how the sign could be improved.
I suggested “Please form a line”. He asked about “Please get in line” but I said that might be okay for the Thai Military Bank but not for the more touchy-feely Bangkok Bank. He got me to write the correct English down for him, and even waiied me as thanks.
“And what about the Tagalog … is it correct?” he then asked, to which I replied I had limited knowledge of that language.
“Shame,” he said. “That’s the language out of all of them I really need to get right.”
Oh … really??
On that note he and I parted, both with new-found knowledge; his in the form of a new English sign, and mine in the comforting fact that Filipinos are even worse queue-jumpers than we westerners. Who would have thought?
MORE LIKE A DEVIL DOLL (Part 1)
By Andrew Biggs
Back in 2016, Thailand embarked on a brief love affair with Angel Dolls.
The whole country went crazy over these dolls that had alleged mystical powers to bring good luck. Airlines were charging for their seats; grown men and women chatted to them, took them to beauty parlors and even, stuffed them full of amphetamines and smuggled them down to the capital. It had gotten so wacky, international news agencies were following the story keenly.
What could one do? Well there were two choices:
1. Moan, groan, chastise, berate, belittle and scream at the idiocy of the world; or
2. If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em.
So I chose number two. I decided to get myself my very own Angel Doll.
1. GOODBYE SCREWDRIVER, HELLO ANGEL
My staff were helpful in finding an Angel Doll. It comes from the countless hours they spend deep in Facebook and Instagram at the expense of the work I pay them to do.
Sampeng was the centre for purchasing these dolls, they told me. That’s how I ended up at Mega Wang Burapha department store.
I arrived on the day there had been news that drug dealers, too, had gotten in on the act. Dolls stuffed with methamphetamines were found in Chiang Mai and thus, Angel Dolls were no longer out on the streets. Buying one was akin to buying illicit drugs.
There was a conspiratorial conversation with one street vendor who admitted she had two Angel Dolls if we “wait a minute”. I wondered if I should have asked for cocaine or methamphetamines as well. I was reminded of the old days of purchasing pornographic videos on Patpong (birthday gifts, of course) and having to wait as the staff rushed deep into the soi to obtain Debbie Does Dallas Director’s Cut.
The first doll, a boy, was just plain ugly. The second one, a girl, was ugly too, but apparently this was the “look” of the Angel Dolls. The vendor and my staff cooed and fawned over her; I could only see her as Chucky in a dress which you’re about to find out was not far from the truth.
This doll cost me 2,000 Baht plus 200 Baht for the Thai dress. The equivalent of three Absolut vodka bottles for a doll.
“She will bring you good fortune,” said the vendor. “But first, you need to place a spirit in her.”
“I need a spirit in me too,” I answered. “But I just sacrificed three bottles of them.”
2. BUDDHIST VOODOO 101
Angel Dolls needed to be “blessed” by monks. Yes, monks of the Buddhist faith, the very religion that spells out clearly not to believe in hocus pocus and notions like putting spirits in plastic dolls. On the way back from Sampeng I took my doll to a temple and was surprised to be chastised by the abbot, who told me he would do no such ritual.
His view was shared by the famous monk Phra Payom, who this week likened Angel Dolls to Krispy Kreme donuts or Roti Boy coffee buns. He predicted most dolls would end up in the trash within three months. Talk about a killjoy!
Luckily there was a monk over in Nonthaburi who is of another opinion, and appeared to be blessing hundreds of these dolls as we spoke for a generous donation of course.
Nonthaburi was a little too far for me to travel, and the traffic was bad, so I decided to bless my doll myself.
“Abracadabra,” I whispered, humming a few bars of the old Steve Miller song, and making a mystical face.
That should do the trick. Luck be a lady tonight.
3. VALLEY OF THE DOLLS
Sampeng was a hive of activity for Thais and their dolls. You could see them everywhere, and not five minutes after securing mine, I ran into a trendy young man by the Chester Grill ketchup bar holding Nong Nicha, as he has named his Angel Doll. This young man paid 15,000 Baht for Nicha. I have to admit I felt a little jealous, not to mention inadequate with my pathetic two-thousand-baht baby I was clutching.
“And what is your baby’s name?” he asked.
Good lord. I never thought of a name. I blurted out the first one that comes to mind.
“Andrea,” I said.
4. A DAY IN THE LIFE AND ANDREW AND ANDREA
First, I took Nong Andrea for a walk through a shopping center. Andrea helped pay for gas at my local gas station. We did had a mishap at the lifts, where I got Andrea to press the button, only to accidentally tear off her arm from the shoulder.
Things got worse. At afternoon tea, I purchased a tea and tart for Andrea, since you have to treat these dolls like real children. Andrea didn’t move, so I ended up having to shove the tart into her face.
Children can be so contrary at times.
5. THE LAST STRAW
That damned doll has brought me nothing but trouble.
On the very day I acquired Andrea, I was maneuvering a U-turn on Phetchaburi Road when I accidentally brushed past a yellow barricade. I have NEVER hit a barricade before in my life, and I was completely sober — though I may have been obsessing about those three lost Absolut bottles I forfeited for Little Miss Chucky over in the passenger seat.
I totally blamed Andrea for the accident. In fact, since acquiring her, my productivity had gone straight down. I had no concentration. I was 2,200 baht out of pocket. I felt depressed.
At least my staff were no longer spending all day on Facebook and Instagram — they had more important things to do, like braiding Andrea’s hair and adding hair clips and brooches.
At the end of the day I was reminded of Phra Payom’s prophecy. Only he was a little out on the timeline. It didn’t take Andrea three months to end up in the trash. More like three hours.
And that is where we leave Andrea. In the trash. Only there is more.
MORE LIKE A DEVIL DOLL (Part 2)
By Andrew Biggs
“Ladies and Gentlemen, the cabin light will be dim. If you wish to keep on reading, please switch on the cabin light above you.”
It is early evening on an Air Asia flight back to Bangkok after an exhausting day in Surat Thani.
I’m so fatigued, even the absence of a plural “light” in the recorded announcement fails to move me.
Had I been feeling a little livelier, I would have called the nearest flight attendant over and asked which of the myriad lights in the cabin was going to be “dim” and what were the criteria for it alone to be chosen, and pray, can’t Air Asia find anyone who can pronounce her “-ed” in the future passive?
Thank god for fatigue, otherwise I would have won Mr Pedantic Passenger 2016 at the annual Air Asia office party. Besides, my mind has been consumed with things more pressing than failed conjugations.
My thoughts are with … Andrea.
You have to believe me; I had no intention of carrying the Angel Doll column into this week. Last week’s was a stand-alone story and should have been left at that. Sequels are never good as their predecessors. Go and see what The Hangover spawned and you will understand. And speaking of spawn, let’s get back to the real issue in question — the spawn of Satan that entered my life last week in the shape of an Angel Doll.
Though I can feel the fever pitch of the national fad dimming — not unlike the lights in the Air Asia cabin — Thais are still going crazy over the dolls. I was at a Surat Thani restaurant last night where a woman at another table was nursing her six-month old child. “Look!” said one of the waitresses, “A real-life Angel Doll!” So that’s how we describe babies now, is it?
In case you missed last week’s column, I purchased an Angel Doll from Sampeng to experience what all the fuss was about. I christened my doll Andrea and spent a day with her; a day in which my car got scratched, a migraine set in and I was non-productive and listless.
I blamed Andrea for it all. She ended up in the trash, a perfect end to the story. Alas, Chucky never dies. It just returns for the sequel.
An hour after I’d tossed Andrea into the trash, she was fished out by my Thai staff. She was back on my shelf, with a brand new bracelet, hair clip, and necklace. Her hair had been plaited, but that would be transient. Andrea’s hairdo changed on a daily basis.
The day after her resurrection I received a phone call. It was my accountant, who, like most accountants, only allows displays of personality for special occasions. On that day she was beaming.
“The money has come through!” she chirped. “We just received confirmation!”
We had been owed a very large sum of money for a factory project we did in the North-east two years ago. Despite us fulfilling our part of the deal more than adequately, our client was subscribing to the blood-extraction-from-a-stone bill payment theory.
Out of the blue they paid up. It wasn’t until the afternoon that the news got back to me — my staff were attributing that windfall to you-know-who.
“Ever since she’s come into our lives, she has brought good luck,” said my receptionist. My personal assistant agreed vigorously, stroking Andrea’s hair as the conversation ensued.
My sales person frowned at me and said: “You shouldn’t look down on her so much.” I told her I would consider her suggestion with the same grain of salt I perused her potential client contact sheet.
Then another bombshell.
I had a visit from a former staff member of mine. Upon seeing Andrea, she hugged her and insisted on having a picture taken.
Two days later she entered a lucky draw at the company she now works for. She drew out a cash prize of 100,000 Baht.
My personal assistant nearly wet his pants.
“It’s Andrea! It’s Andrea!” he bellowed throughout my school, piquing the interest of my receptionist and sales staff and the occasional student. Everybody was wide-eyed. Andrea, who sat on my office shelf, started receiving visits every 15 minutes from my staff. Some gave her a wai. Some whispered to her. My personal assistant hugged her.
“Andrea, give me the winning lottery numbers and I’ll buy you a one baht gold necklace,” he said, kissing her on the forehead. This is the man who wipes down the mouths of water bottles for fear of botulism; no compunction about being the fifth in a row to kiss Andrea’s forehead.
A day later I was in Surat Thani. I wanted to take Andrea down as part of the show, but my staff were adamant; Andrea was NOT going to be shoved into a suitcase.
I was just as adamant that I wasn’t going to carry Andrea onto the plane. When the suggestion was made that I purchase an extra ticket for her, I seized upon the opportunity to teach the popular English idioms “when hell freezes over” and “over my dead body”.
But the damned doll keeps pulling off the lucky charm shtick.
At that Surat Thani restaurant, after paying the bill we had no means of getting back to our hotel.
“Let’s ask Andrea to help us,” suggested my personal assistant. He turned and shouted into the night air: “Andrea, make a taxi come and pick us up now!”
“This has gone way too far,” I snapped, but none of my staff were listening to me. They were all too bedazzled by the headlights of the oncoming taxi that appeared out of nowhere not 30 seconds later.
I feel like I am living in a Twilight Zone episode. Little Miss Chucky is bestowing good luck upon my staff and me – but will there have to be a payoff? Will I have to burn in the hideous flames of Hades for eternity because she arranged that cab?
“How can Andrea give you lucky lottery numbers?” I asked my personal assistant as the cabin lights were dimming.
“Oh, easy. When I waft my hand across the lottery tickets, I ask Andrea to choose a ticket,” he answered.
“But she’s not with you when you buy it.”
“She doesn’t need to be. She is there … in spirit.”
That’s what I was contemplating as I sat in the dimness of the Air Asia cabin. Why are we so quick to attribute our good fortune to a life-like doll? Like that overdue payment … what happened to the hard work we did, the excellent product we delivered, the letters requesting payment, the lawyer, the conscience of the North-Eastern factory … did none of that count?
As for my former staff member, in a lucky draw somebody has to fluke it. And from my experience in Surat Thani town there are taxis roaming the streets all the time.
All I know for sure is next week my staff are going to be devastated when I donate Andrea to an orphanage.
Perhaps they can get on with their lives. They could even return to creating good luck for themselves through diligence and opportunity, rather than joss sticks and prayers.
That is my hope for Thailand as well. It is more than a hope; it is a necessity, for if we don’t, it’s not just the Air Asia cabin lights that are dimming.
AMWAY, INSURANCE AND CHICKEN
By Andrew Biggs
I was having a solitary lunch last Tuesday with my friend Evil Neil when a phone call came out of the blue.
A phone call on my cellphone, that is. Regular readers know Neil, a helpless victim of corporate cellular phone advertising who changes his phone as often as we eat somtam, and who, with every new device, plasters superglue between it and his ear so that it’s permanently stuck to his head – hence my “solitary” lunch with him last Tuesday.
Anyway it was a surprise to see my phone spring to life, and an even bigger surprise to hear the voice on the other end.
“Andrew! Are you remember my sound? It’s me! Kritchai!”
Kritchai! Oh my goodness.
For the first time that Tuesday my mood changed for the better. One of my very first friends in Thailand, inseparable for the first year. We were both 26 at the time and he had just left the monkhood after 15 years. Imagine spending your adolescent years celibate and, worse, perpetually in saffron when black was all the rage.
Kritchai had disappeared off the face of the earth for 10 years; he was married now with two children.
“I want to see you!” he said in his ever-cheerful voice. Then he dropped the clanger.
“… and I want to sell insurance to you!” he chortled.
At that moment whatever house of cards situated in my general vicinity shuddered, caved in and collapsed. Oh Kritchai, Kritchai. That one little sentence that tumbled from your smiling mouth said it all. I was no longer Kritchai’s old friend. I was his potential customer.
I have had a litany of friends-turned-salesmen, and being a man of few friends, it’s disturbing when I have to cast one off simply because of some corporate sales training that has told him or her it’s okay to fleece your friends in the name of profits. Do you detect a slight bitter and twisted tone in my voice? Pardon me if it’s slight. It should be resounding.
Kritchai is friend #7 who resurfaces after being submerged for ages in order to (1) tell me how much he’s missed me, (2) ask me what I have been doing lately, (3) ask about one particular mutual friend, then (4) explain if I don’t purchase this 20-year life insurance plan off them I am solely responsible for his bankruptcy and the failure of his children to secure an education.
It’s the reason I have four or five thoroughly useless life insurance policies I continue to pay annually before I got wise to it. It’s not about warm friendship. It’s all about commission, because the moment I have paid up, (5) long-lost friend returns to long-lost land as quickly as he appeared.
Ten years ago I had two dear friends called Pornphen and Pornphen. I lost one of them tragically. To disease, perhaps? To an horrific car accident on the Bangkok streets? Worse … to Amway.
“I’ve signed up to Amway,” one of the Pornphens announced one lunch date as the three of us sat down to a plate of khor moo yang. She plonked down a brochure. “From now on you don’t have to waste time going to the supermarket. You can order everything from me.”
“But … I like going to the supermarket,” I tried to explain. How else could I end up with secret stashes of Snickers and Lay’s Sour Cream and Onion chips in the drawer beside my bed?
Pornphen rolled her eyes and dived into an explanation of the products I had the privilege of purchasing off her and her only. In no time lunches with the Pornphens changed from ascerbic gossip sessions to demonstrations of the wonders of Amway’s toothpaste or its incredible dishwashing liquid.
“This is a gift for you,” she said sweetly one time, pushing a tube of toothpaste across the table. Whatever happened to a box of chocolates as a gift, Pornphen? I thanked her and tried to steer the conversation away from corporate sales to something fun, but oh no. We were entrenched in the wonders of Amway products.
A week later Pornphen was calling me. “Is the toothpaste finished? Would you like to order some now? How many tubes? And what about some detergent?”
There was an added problem.
My work colleague Wipa had also signed up to Amway, as did my other work colleague Porntip, and my friend Lek’s wife Gift as well. Soon I was being bombarded with phone calls and visits from Thai women with irresistible smiles clutching Amway brochures … and by god heaven forbid if I chose one product from Wipa and the news got out to Porntip or Gift! I’d have a gaggle of Amway sellers pouting, shouting then flouting order forms demanding I order something from them “because it’s not fair you ordered from her and not me”!
The straw that broke the camel’s back came when close friend Jira called. To supplement his teaching income, he was now selling chicken from a co-op that, like Amway, was demanding he attend monthly pep-up sessions in inner city Bangkok hotels where they held hands, sang hymns and gave thanks to those lordly agents who had surpassed some insurmountable sales target. And all in the name of the slaughter of chickens.
Soon our conversations stopped being full of dirty jokes and news analysis in favor of … chicken?
“Did you know you can get 70 percent of your daily protein from just a small portion of chicken?” he asked me once. I reeled in shock at Jira’s instant foray into the Red Zone of the Boring Meter, as he paraphrased Pornphen: “So how much would you like to order?”
Not long after I instigated a new way of greeting any call from the likes of Jira or Pornphen: “Are you calling me in my capacity as your friend or as your customer? Coz I’m hanging up if it’s the latter.”
Jira’s love affair with all things chicken lasted not a year. Pornphen’s went on much longer, but the level of frenetic hard sell by friends who succumbed to such schemes has died down of late. Or perhaps I just don’t have as many friends as I used to. As for Kritchai, I knew there would be no catch-up dinner with my dear old friend as I anticipated. Holding four or five insurance policies is cute – holding six is bordering on ludicrous.
“Who was that?” Evil Neil asked me as I hung up from Kritchai, in the few brief seconds he had between phone calls during my solitary lunch.
“Oh nobody,” I said. “Just some insurance salesman.”
THE GLORY OF GUNSARAY
By Andrew Biggs
Ten-year-old Gunsaray stepped on a mine earlier this year, blowing his left leg off.
Such are the hazards of living in rural Cambodia, the most heavily mined country in the world. It is estimated there are still up to five million mines buried in the fertile plains of our eastern neighbor, which works out to one mine every 3 Cambodians.
Gunsaray spared two other Cambodians of their quota. I can’t imagine the grief of losing a leg at that age, but my lack of imagination could be because for the brief time I met him, he didn’t stop smiling.
I met little Gunsaray just last week when I was in Siem Reap participating in a running race. No need to look so surprised; this very column began thanks to a story I wrote when I ran the Bangkok Marathon back in 2008.
It appears that as we humans hit the age of 40 we branch off in one of two different directions.
One group gives up the booze and drugs and sex and turns to fitness centers and jogging tracks in an effort to remain youthful and exuberant. The other group finds youth and exuberance in the continued use of alcohol and other stimulants, propping up bar counters and making the acquaintance of Nigerians.
Me? I moved to a Buddhist country where one of the principal tenets is “walking the middle path”. Notice the Lord Buddha did not say “running” or “jogging” that path, and thus I choose to do a little of both; I enjoy running, but I also enjoy running a tab at my local establishment.
Anyway that is how I got to the annual Angkor Wat Half Marathon. I made a last minute decision to switch to the 10 km race since one of the other runners in my four-person party, a woman, was running that shorter distance. I was afraid some desperate Cambodian might jump out from behind the hundred-year-old giant teak trees lining the race course and molest her. Thus I did the only chivalrous thing an overweight under-prepared man would do; I asked to switch to the smaller run to keep her company.
“I’m sorry, the 10 km race is all full up,” a pleasant Cambodian official informed me the day before the run at the venue. “There are no bibs left.”
“Are you sure?”
“Oh yes. Quite sure.”
Any normal person would have left it at that, but I have spent 25 years in this part of the world and know the true meaning of “quite sure”.
I lowered my head. “What a terrible shame, because my female friend is going to run the 10 km alone, and her parents were just killed in a terrible boating accident off a Laotian beach, and I fear if I’m not there beside her, she may break down and cry halfway through the course — or worse.”
“Maybe I have just one left,” she replied.
Maybe you do, I wanted to answer, but thought better of it.
In two minutes I had my 10 km bib in hand and I did thank the official profusely, although my cover was almost blown when my female friend fronted up beside gaily chortling: “Did you manage to change your race?”
“Shut up and look gutted,” I whispered.
Anyway that is how I ended up at the Angkor Wat before sunrise last Sunday.
The race itself was well-organized and this being Cambodia, there was a special category of runner; that is, people missing limbs.
Everything was well-oiled with the exception of a bubbly local male celebrity who, over loudspeakers, kept urging runners to “MOVE TO THE SIDE! MOVE TO THE SIDE!” Since the organizers had thoughtfully encircled the venue with loudspeakers, and the bubbly local male celebrity was nowhere to be seen, runners had no idea which side he meant.
“Is he saying ‘site’? Do we have to move to the ‘site’?”
“Aren’t we at the site already?”
“Maybe he’s saying ‘sign’ with a Cambodian accent.”
Perhaps the bubbly local male celebrity could sense the confusion, since he attempted to clarify himself by saying: “TO THE SIDE OF ME! TO THE SIDE OF ME!” Fat lot of good that was.
The 10km race began at 6.20 am and what a magnificent course it was, through the stunning ruins of Angkor Wat.
My aim was to maintain a pace of 9 km an hour; a goal I proudly kept up for the first three kilometres. And it was during those three kilometres I was introduced to Gunsaray – when he overtook me.
Gunsaray shot ahead of me around kilometer number one; a skinny little kid on a single wooden crutch. Look closely at the photograph on this page and you will see Gunsaray’s single flip-flop.
And yet this little kid with the one leg tore past me, then kept up with me for those first three kilometres. Imagine running three kilometres at a rate of 9 km per hour, dear reader – now imagine doing it on one leg.
Gunsaray was the centre of much cheering and egging on by fellow runners from all around the world. He was the star of the race, with a look of determination that broke into a smile the size of the Angkor Wat itself every time somebody patted him on the back.
At kilometer number three I lost him. He fell back, just as my female companion — whose fabricated tragedy enabled me to run the race — ran ahead of me. She would finish the run in 1 hour and 12 minutes. I finished in one hour and 14 minutes.
He came in at one hour thirty minutes. What a feat; that gorgeous little kid on a single leg did, in an hour and a half, what I did with two legs a mere 15 minutes faster.
It took me half an hour to seek out Gunsaray and ask to take his picture. In that time the half-marathon runners started coming in, including one man who, at the finish line, got down on one knee and proposed to his girlfriend.
I found Gunsaray among about a dozen other disabled kids his own age who ran the race, all of whom belonged to a charity fighting for Cambodia to ratify an international treaty that seeks to ban cluster bombs. Those are the bombs which contain sub-munitions which do so much more damage than the regular mines.
I just hope Gunsaray and his friends have a wonderful New Year. The Angkor Wat run was memorable, but he and his friends made it truly unforgettable.
By Andrew Biggs
A mouse has bitten through the router cable at my office.
My accountant says she’s heard scurrying noises of late in the ceiling, not that she thought to do anything about it for reasons about to become apparent. Now a mouse has bitten through the cable, rendering us without wifi.
“Jai yen yen,” says my accountant, an older woman whose soft voice belies her razor-like hacks at any budget breakdown that lands on her desk. Her swift and decisive action in spotting ways to save money is a godsend; if only she’d applied this talent to mice.
“The technician is coming this afternoon,” she says.
“How do we even know it was a mouse that caused the problem?”
“I climbed up and had a look in the ceiling.”
This sentence comes from my driver, a young man fresh out of the military. He, along with the office maid, are now hovering around my desk with the accountant.
Talk about timing. After struggling with an insufficient wifi system for a year, we just switched over to a new system which guarantees my ability to get onto wifi even during peak hour when three or more of my staff are busy trawling Facebook.
“If you ask me, it’s weird,” my driver says. “It’s weird that a mouse bites through the cable right after we switch wifi companies.”
“Yes. Weird,” says the maid.
“What are you suggesting — that the old company released mice in our ceiling as payback? Forget the conspiracy theories and go buy a few mousetraps,” I say.
The room falls silent.
My three staff members suddenly don their invisibility cloaks. This is a particularly Thai cultural trait; any foreigner who works with Thais must have seen it. Whenever Thais get into a difficult situation, or one that requires them to react to an unfavorable request, the shutters go down. Faces go blank and the ability to extract information suddenly becomes like extracting blood out of a stone. It is almost as if a mouse has chewed through a cable in their minds.
“Mousetraps,” I repeat.
More silence. Then a thought occurs to me. We don’t have mousetraps in Thailand.
Think about it, dear reader … when was the last time you spotted a good old-fashioned mousetrap at Tops?
A self-conscious movement from the shoulder of my accountant. A slight grin from the maid. Absolute military stillness from my driver.
“Okay, what’s going on here?” I finally ask.
“It’s cruel,” says my accountant.
“Yes, cruel,” says the maid.
“It’s taking a life,” says my accountant.
“Yes, a life,” says the maid.
“You’ve got to be joking,” I say, adding myself: “Yes, joking.”
But they are not. They cannot kill animals according to the Five Buddhist Precepts. Those precepts are very much like Christianity’s Ten Commandments with the fatuous ones edited out. Buddhism boils it down to no lying, gambling, sleeping around, drinking — and killing.
My accountant can’t bear the thought of buying a mousetrap. Nor can the maid. The driver, fresh out of military life, is loathe to set a trap. We won’t be sending him to the frontline when Myanmar invades.
I appeal to the driver’s inability to reason. “Technically you’re not killing the mouse by laying the trap,” I say. “The trap is killing it.”
“Yes but he is enabling the process,” says the accountant. I want to say “Who asked you?” but that would be rude.
“What about sticky plates?” my accountant suggests.
Now the three are animated; the invisibility cloak is, unsurprisingly for an invisibility cloak, nowhere to be seen.
She means those round platters filled with sticky goop. In the middle you place food. The mice ventures onto the platter and gets stuck there. The more they struggle, the more they are wedged to the platter.
“You’re unwilling to buy a mousetrap, but you’re happy to buy a sticky platter? You are aware, aren’t you, that the mouse still dies?”
“Not like a mousetrap,” says the accountant.
“No, not like a mousetrap,” says the maid.
“We just throw it out,” says the messenger.
“And you think the mouse gets up from the platter and races out of the trashcan? If anything, it’s twice as cruel as a mousetrap. At least the mouse is killed instantly. Imagine the slow agonizing death of being stuck to a plate.”
Dammit. The invisibility cloak has returned, and I’m sounding like a villain from an animal rights comic book.
I can’t help it. I grew up in a country where I never thought twice about killing a mouse. In the 1970s the government actively encouraged us to squish cane toads. The Top 10 deadliest spiders in the world can all be found in Australia — it’s actually the Top 11, but 10 sounds better. Such was my upbringing – we swatted and killed and squashed whenever we could.
A Thai friend once explained: “We Thais don’t like to hurt animals. That’s why we have a problem with soi dogs. Thais consider it a sin to de-sex an animal because it’s like killing its offspring.”
Karma or no karma, it is either me or the mouse. Since I’m paying the salaries, I issue the order: “Go buy a mousetrap. Or a sticky plate. Whatever.”
My driver and maid go to the nearby Phrakhanong Market. Why two people are required to buy a single mousetrap is beyond me, and while they are away the technician comes and lays a new cable in the ceiling.
When they return, they are gleeful.
“We couldn’t find any,” said the driver.
“No, none at all,” says the maid.
“It’s okay,” says the accountant. “All the noise of the technician in the ceiling will surely have scared the mice away. And good news — the wifi is stronger than ever!”
She is right. It’s a happy ending to the story. I have my wifi restored, and none of my three staff have killing on their conscience.
Which is more than I can say for myself.
This morning I fantasized about all three of them being trapped in a giant mousetrap, because four days have passed, and yesterday the damned mouse bit through the cable again.
HOW I GOT TO THAILAND
By Andrew Biggs
One of my earliest observances of Bangkok life was made from the second floor of a Khlong Toey guest house, from the window of a room festooned with linoleum and cockroach.
Looking down upon the street, there was a group of Thais sitting on a frayed bamboo mat in a rough circle, and inside that circle were plates of food with forks and spoons sticking out of them. There was an ice bucket and soda water bottles and a bottle of local whiskey, probably Mekhong, in one of those small flat bottles called a baen which is convenient since one can slip it into a trouser pocket while working or driving.
Conversation was animated and top-ups were frequent. A dinky radio cranked out Thai hits. I sat in the darkness, watching them laughing and eating and philosophizing, thinking that perhaps this was the essence of life; good friends, good food, and a frayed old bamboo mat.
It was my second night in Bangkok.
It was on February 14 that I arrived in Thailand for the very first time for what was intended to be a two-day enforced visit before starting work on a London newspaper. That was 30 years ago. I wonder if the position, let alone the paper itself, is still in existence.
I never intended to spend my life here. Back then I was working for a Rupert Murdoch newspaper in Australia. Murdoch then bought The Sun and The Times of London, which meant I could get a job in England easily. Back in those days we had these things called “travel agents” and my agent found the cheapest ticket was Thai Airways International. But there was a catch.
Thai Airways demanded the passenger break his or her journey in Thailand for at least two nights. That didn’t go down well, as I wanted to get to the UK as quickly as possible (and when was the last time you heard an Australian say that?).
And so, on February 14, 1989, at Brisbane airport I bought a novel I intended to read in my hotel room for the duration of my two-day stay in Thailand. That novel was Zen And The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, as popular at the time as it was pretentious, but in my defence I was going through my Naive Philosophical Phase.
Everything changed upon arrival.
First, I’d never been to an airport before where there were counters selling sex tours right next to the money exchange — in the restricted zone. Also, it was the first place on earth I’d been to where a battered 1980 Toyota Celica qualified as a “Limousine”. I bet even visiting Toyota executives guffawed at that.
The driver was a wizened old guy who reminded me of Munch’s The Scream.
“Pai nai?” he barked at me, as if it were a given every newly-arrived tourist was fluent in Thai. I made an educated guess and said the name of my lodgings and he barked back: “Okay!”
He jettisoned us out of that airport with a g-force only seasoned fighter pilots would relate to. Upon regaining consciousness I reached for my seatbelt; there was none.
He proceeded to chop and change lanes every four to six seconds, as I sat there in the passenger seat mortified, trying to remember some soothing philosophical passage from Zen And The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance to calm me down, forgetting I was yet to start the damned novel.
Along the way, another shock — as we flew down that highway, a motorcycle came hurtling towards us on the wrong side of the road. I couldn’t believe it! How could such a flagrant violation of international driving laws be tolerated? Where were the police when you needed them? It wasn’t until we got closer that I saw for myself … it was a police motorcycle.
The following day I visited the amazing Grand Palace. Zen And The Art Of Motorcycle Maintenance would have to wait; I bought the Lonely Planet guide to Bangkok instead. In a sense Joe Cummings dictated the direction of my life for the next three decades, since I was intrigued by the ancient Siamese capitals explained in that book. I decided to extend my stay.
The Bangkok of 1989 was a vastly different place. There were more brothels than fast food restaurants for a start.
I’m not making that up. There was a MacDonald’s at Siam Square and one at Silom. That was the extent of American fast food. The most popular restaurant chain was a local one boasting North-Eastern, or Isan food. Its name was “Isn’t Classic,” since “isn’t” allegedly sounds like “Isan.” No wonder it died out.
KFC would open a year or two later and I remember at the time proclaiming: It’ll never last. Why would Thais patronize an American fried chicken chain when they already have the most delicious grilled chicken on earth? As usual, I was wrong.
Things weren’t quite so cosmopolitan back then. Everybody drank Singha beer, Mekhong whiskey or Johnnie Walker. Nothing else. The most popular toothpaste was called Darkie featuring the grinning face of a black man. Local music flagrantly copied western stuff, which is kind of interesting since today those very same local music labels are cracking down on copyright infringements on those very same tracks.
There was no skytrain. Traffic was gridlocked day and night. You visited one place per day. One of the big sellers at the time was a device called Comfort 100, a container that allowed you to pee into a plastic container whilst in traffic. It came with a special attachment for women; 60 Minutes did a segment about it.
Every street had a brothel. This was towards the end of the era where good Thai girls kept their virginity until their wedding day, while good Thai boys were expected to lose theirs on a weekly basis.
HIV and AIDS were prevalent and new. A trailblazing politician by the name of Mechai Viravaidya was so strident in his campaign to use condoms, for the first few years I was here a condom was referred to as a “meechai”.
Thanks to curiosity and Joe Cummings, my two days in Thailand extended to two weeks, which extended to two years, and now, three decades.
The changes in Bangkok have been creeping but stark. It is now a funkier, sassier metropolis with soaring condominiums where bustling markets used to be. And yet two weeks ago, as I was standing on the fifth floor balcony of one of those market-obliterating condos, I got this amazing sense of deja-vu.
Enjoying a little night air, I looked down onto the street and was transported back in time.
There was a group of people sitting in a rough circle on a frayed bamboo mat. In the middle were plates of food with forks and spoons sticking out of them. There was an ice bucket, a small baen of whiskey and soda bottles.
Seven Thais in a circle. I know because I counted the seven small rectangular screens, lit up in the darkness, in the palms of the seven participants. From where I stood I could make out the green of Line and the blue of Facebook. Not a word was being spoken among them. Not a radio in sight, since three of the four were wearing headphones.
Such a scene begs an insightful philosophical observation but alas, my Zen And The Art Of Motorcycle Maintenance, like the Bangkok of 1989, is lost in time.
THE TOP 40 FARANGS
By Andrew Biggs
I see the Thailand Tatler Top 300 Expat List is out on the streets.
It’s actually called “The 300 List”. It comes out every couple of years and resembles a Billboard Hot 100, with the Bill Heineckes of the world shooting to number one while hapless NIST English teachers hover around the 290’s like a Backstreet Boys comeback single.
It was back in 2007 that I received an email from Thailand Tatler informing me I’d been “selected” as one of Thailand’s leading expats and would be featured on a “list”.
It would be terribly remiss of me to pretend I wasn’t impressed, though had I not been so completely up my own prostate I would have heard the warning bells.
First … an email? Where’s the gold-embossed Issey Miyake-scented letter in the special commemorative Thailand Tatler Top Expat Edition envelope? We’re not talking smelly Khaosan Road Eurotrash here – haven’t you deemed me “leading”? Please … afford me the honor I so truly deserve!
I was too starry-eyed to smell the impending rat; I dutifully dashed off a “short summary” of my “achievements and distinctions”. As I approached the 4,500 word mark I realized perhaps I should respect the 200 word limit and start again.
I quickly dispatched that, along with an airbrushed headshot from 1993, off to Thailand Tatler then sat back in my plush leather chair on the 21st floor of Maleenont Tower. With my head tilted to the window that afforded me a stunning view of the Khlong Toey slum, I reveled in my achievements and distinctions, happy that a prestigious magazine such as Thailand Tatler had finally seen fit to separate the expat sheep from the Nana Plaza goats.
My telephone sprang to life.
“You’ll never guess what I just got asked to be in.”
It was the beaming voice of my dear friend Evil Neil from the 28th floor. Regular readers of this column know Evil Neil, Thailand’s biggest concert promoter … not that that makes him a man of achievement and distinction, unless you’re on stage to announce the award for Atrocious Cell Phone Etiquette.
There was something just a little too smug about his tone of voice, and I didn’t like it.
“I have no idea,” I said. Don’t, whatever you do, say you got a letter from Thailand Tat-
“It’s a letter from Thailand Tatler,” he said, his words glistening and sparkling in the late afternoon sun.
My immediate reaction was; they’re compiling two lists? The Movers and Shakers (my letter) and the Also Rans (Evil Neil’s)? To be honest I don’t doubt Evil Neil’s propensity to dazzle outsiders with his aura of power, but I was a little put out that Thailand Tatler had seen fit to invite two farangs from the very same company to join some exclusive list of Thailand’s Sexiest Expats or whatever the name of it was.
Two? Try three.
“The boss has received one, too,” Evil Neil explained. Now there was a growing apprehension about this exclusive list – I mean, just how exclusive was it going to be?
When the magazine flopped on my desk two months later I was outraged.
“Thailand Tatler’s Exclusive Top 300 Expat List”.
First of all, in a city like Bangkok, what is exclusive about a list of 300 people? I’m surprised my Nepalese gardener didn’t make the list. I’m a bit of a man about town and for all the high-society events I attend, not once did the expat numbers swell to 300.
Billboard calls it their “Hot 100” … I am assuming any expansion of that number turns it into a “Tepid 200”. So what does that make us here in Bangkok – the “Thawed Out 300”? I can just imagine the harried TT staff on the day before deadline coming to the realization they have only mustered up a list of 277 … oh no! 23 movers and shakers short!
“Quick … take this camera and run down to Nana Plaza and see if anybody looks vaguely like leadership material,” the Editor must have said. “On second thoughts, head for Soi Cowboy. Times are tough … even for movers and shakers.”
This is clearly what happened in this latest list, judging by the inclusion of some very dubious faces; movers and shakers in the Pattaya Walking Street girlie bars, perhaps, but certainly not in Bangkok society.
This is borne out by the telltale last question TT asked on the form required to be sent back: “Can you recommend any other names to be included on our list?” Ah-hah! So you did have to pop down to Soi Cowboy after all!
It’s bad enough the list is a morbidly-obese 300. Worse still -- it’s alphabetized!
Thank God my last name’s Biggs, putting me at #18 on the Thawed Out 300. I just think it’s downright unfair Anthony Ainsworth is a perennial #1, while poor old Boaz Zippor, that talented photographer, must be beside himself languishing at #300. What happens if a new expat by the name of, oh, Veronica Zimmerpickle suddenly shoulders her way into Thai expat society? Poor Boaz gets bumped!
It would have been far more exciting – not to mention riveting – to rank the Top 300 expats on a weekly basis.
Perhaps not so great for Anthony Ainsworth, but certainly Bill Heinecke would jump from his current #107 straight to #1 in his first week on the chart – that hasn’t happened since Michael Jackson released “You Are Not Alone”.
TT could tabulate our rises and falls based on bank statements, appearances in the social pages, contributions to the TT Pension Fund, etc. And since we Bangkok expats have a propensity for, er, untoward behavior (a mere 11 out of the 300 are devoid of skeletons in the closet), that too could have an effect on our weekly rankings when and if we get caught. Surely my three months in America earlier this year would have seen me slip from #18 down to the lower regions of the Top 40.
Whenever Rolling Stone publishes their list of the 100 Greatest Songs Of All Time they cop a lot of flak from readers who demand to know why classics like We Built This City or Sunglasses At Night weren’t included. It’s the same with the Thawed Out 300.
Last Wednesday I had dinner with my good friend Andrew Stotz, Thailand’s leading financial analyst, the likes of which the Prime Minister himself consults. Where is he on the list? And what about my dear friend Stuart MacDonnell who runs international sporting events, before which 85 per cent of “The 300 List” telephone him asking for free tickets?
It was Steve Pettifour (#225, art critic extraordinaire) who explained to me this week why there are 300 of us, and not a more manageable 40 or 100. This is what he said:
Recently there was an event at the Renaissance Hotel to announce the Thawed Out 300 and he went. He made the list for the first time, making me wonder who he bumped and whether he should increase security at his moo bahn because of it.
“It’s a conspiracy,” he explained. “They want us all to beef up. They’re going to put us all in armor and make us fight in the name of Sparta!”
Ah, now I get it. And that I would like to see. Anthony Ainsworth and the other 17 in front of me can man the front line.
I’ll be at the back having a beer with Boaz.
THE FARANG ACCENT
By Andrew Biggs
All around my Los Angeles neighborhood are hand-written signs tacked onto lofty palm trees: “ACCENT ELIMINATION”. The two words are followed by a local telephone number, which to my surprise doesn’t begin with 555.
Accent Elimination – how intriguing. A long, long time ago I was here in Southern California as an AFS foreign exchange student. This was pre-Crocodile Dundee, and Americans had next to no knowledge of Australia … but they did love my accent.
These days Aussies are a dime a dozen in America; you can find them trawling the cheap beer in Ralph’s supermarkets, or staggering out of seedy Sunset Boulevard bars singing Khe Sanh at the top of their atonal voices.
In fact here in LA nobody has an American accent. Every little Fatburger or El Polo Loco in every strip mall across LA is a cacophony of voices from Asia, Europe, the Middle East and, most predominantly, Mexico to the point where LA must surely stand for Latin America. “Accent Elimination” promises to knock that accent out of you, and in no time you’ll begin to sound like those prescription-happy people on every American TV ad.
“It’s a service for new Americans who can be a little difficult to understand,” my host brother Marc explained when I finally gathered the courage to ask. “What about in Thailand? Do you have a problem with accents?”
How interesting you should ask.
Something bizarre is going on in Thailand. As a native English speaker spends more and more time in the kingdom, his English starts to mutate into something far removed from what he uses back home.
The next night you have off, quietly pop down to any pub in Soi Cowboy, Nana or Patpong. Find yourself a bar stool, thoroughly disinfect it with anti-fungal spray, sit down upon it and order an orange juice. Now, listen in to your neighbors. As any professor of linguistics will tell you, the deterioration happens in four distinct phases:
Phase One: The Demise of “S”
For some inexplicable reason, many western visitors who fraternize with the locals believe that the more they speak like an idiot, the better they will be understood.
Thus, within days they are dropping the conjugated S at the end of verbs whose subject is third-person singular.
“Your mother, she say she sick?” I heard an Australian in dire need of a course of Jenny Craig frozen dinners ask his new friend Noi. From my eavesdropping position Noi had just informed him, surprise surprise, that her mother has fallen ill. “She go to hospital?” the Aussie asked.
say … go … what happened on the Jetstar flight over here that made you decide these were preferable to says and goes? In a similar way, this linguistic disease starts spreading to the present continuous tense, eradicating it entirely. “I go to ATM,” he tells Noi. “Then we eat rice. OK?” “OK!” Noi nods, with a winsome smile, not because she understands the sentence structure, but because she heard the magic word: ATM.
Phase Two: Bye Bye Verb To Be
This, I suspect, is a communicable disease the western tourist picks up from the likes of Noi.
“You very beautiful!” he say – I beg your pardon – says. “I very happy with you.” The man is effectively speaking like a newspaper headline, dropping the is am are faster than he drops thousand-Baht bills into Noi’s sweaty palms.
He’s not doing anybody any favors talking like this, especially poor Noi, who should be learning that the verb “to be” is fundamental to any good English sentence. In no time she herself will begin speaking like this, with sentences like “He my brother!” when a man, strangely with the same nose and mouth as Noi’s 3-year-old son, appears from upcountry needing a motorbike.
3. Preposterous Pronouns
The first person I ever heard speaking like this was a western woman … and an Australian to boot. It was down on Koh Samui as she ordered a drink from a bewildered Thai waiter.
“Me like water,” she was saying from her buckling deckchair. “Me want water in bottle. Me no like Coke or Pepsi.”
Has this woman seen one too many Tarzan movies? Where does she get off thinking “me” instead of “I” as the subject is good? Some tourists even do it the other way around.
“You come to I tonight at 11 pm. Lek come here. Lek wait for I here, okay?” I heard a Dutchman tell his Thai bargirlfriend (named Lek) on the Pattaya walking street. Poor Lek; she’s going to hit her teens thinking it’s perfectly acceptable to switch “I” and “me” around as frequently as she switches Eurotrash boyfriends.
The final stage is almost fatal, simply because I want to murder the idiots who enter it. By this stage, their accent and English construction is more fraught with holes than a Sukhumvit condominium complex. It’s the stage I call …
Phase Four: The Same-Same Syndrome
Thais love to take English words and give them new meanings far removed from what may appear in your old MacMillan or Oxford dictionary. A “freshy” is a freshman, for example, and if your clothes “fit”, then they are too small for you. I know, quirky and cute, but completely understandable in the adventure of learning a new language.
It does not, however, give native English speakers carte blanche to do it.
“I no butterfly!” I heard a British septuagenarian defending his character to the blank-faced-but-gorgeous girl in a temple-fair bikini sitting on his lap. “I no like you say that.” She’s no doubt just accused him of philandering not because she believes it, but what else is she gonna talk about between now and asking for a TV? But that is beside the point – where in England does one call a philanderer a “butterfly”?
“Mekhong whiskey same-same methylated spirits,” I overheard an Australian telling his Thai bargirl one night in Patpong. The girl raised her eyebrows and laughed, lifting her glass and clinking it with his, pretending ‘methylated spirits’ was a word she indeed knew from her four years’ schooling upcountry.
“Butterfly” … “same-same” … no verb to be … no present continuous tense … “like” suddenly an intransitive verb. These are the symptoms of a strange linguistic disease that engulfs many a western tourist to Thailand. What is it that makes us think speaking like an idiot somehow makes us easier to understand, let alone be of any help to a Thai already grappling with the maddening complexities of the English language? And yet we do it, and often.
It’s a slap in the face to the Thais. Somebody wrestling with a second language doesn’t mean they are stupid. The last thing they need is condescending pidgin English comin’ right at ‘em. So no, Marc, we don’t need Accent Eliminators in Thailand … though mandatory intelligence tests along with visas on arrival may not go astray.
SABAI DEE, SOMTAM
By Andrew Biggs
This week I enjoyed a delicious lunch at Suan Dusit University, my host being none of than the Dean of the Faculty of Education.
We ate at the university restaurant, which doubles up as a training ground for hospitality. Despite our lofty stature we chose to eat traditional Thai food. The Dean had pad kraphao while I ate rard nah.
We also shared another dish.
“It’s a specialty of the restaurant,” my host told me. “You’ve got to try it.”
That dish was somtam but with a difference. Rather than being made with papaya and peanuts, the restaurant replaced those ingredients with apple and cashew nuts. A little sweeter, but that was offset by the lemon and chilies so inherent in this variation of Thailand’s national dish.
What a great lunch; who would have thought the Dean and myself had participated in a culinary offence worthy of the wrath of the Culture Minister?
This week the Ministry of Culture got its pa-sin in a knot over Thai fusion food. Something insidious is happening in the culinary world. More and more Thai restaurants especially overseas are experimenting, veering off the straight and narrow.
I never imagined Thai fusion food to be a cultural stinker. I always thought it was kind of interesting and creative and, best of all, delicious.
I was wrong, according to the latest Culture Minister. He is Vira Rojpojchanarat, and his argument is that Thai food is unique, with recipes handed down for generations. That food is now under attack from “foreign influences” which are changing “the look and taste of certain dishes”. They are a threat to authentic Thai cuisine. Ultimately, it could lead to the disappearance of some unique Thai foods.
So worried is he about this, and so free is his appointment diary, he has found time to set up a special governmental committee to tackle the problem.
The committee’s aim is to protect, on a national level, Thai cuisine and the country’s food culture. One wonders if the committee is going to be armed or wear special uniforms as they implement this national crackdown. Will Section 44 be required?
It is heartening to learn such committees exist in the Thai civil service. One wonders what the members would spend their time doing if it were not for examining the pros and cons of Thai barbecue chicken with fruit and wasabi. That was the accompanying photo to the news story, demonstrating the heinous extent to which foreigners take innocent Thai dishes, strip them of their condiments and wantonly rape them with wasabi and fruit.
Thailand has one of the most exciting cuisines in the world, and really, to tamper with the tried and true recipes can be foolish. However we do need to corner Khun Vira — in the nicest way possible — sit him down somewhere quiet, order him a nice cup of traditional Thai tea, and have a little whisper to him.
I would start by reminding him of a controversy that gripped the country 20 years ago. It began when the Laotian Government announced a cultural fair displaying all things Laotian. There would be displays of traditional Laotian dancing, beautiful Laotian silk, and “wonderful opportunities to sample delicious traditional Laotian food such as somtam, which has its origins in Laos.”
What did they just say? You couldn’t kick Thailand between the legs any harder if you’d ask the country to spread its legs.
Somtam comes from Laos? That’s like saying to an American: “Your apple pie is delicious, but you know it originates in Canada.” Or to an Australian: “Lovely dessert, your pavlova, but it’s a New Zealand recipe.”
The outrage was so loud it drowned out Sukhumvit Road traffic for days. Thais were adamant. Their spicy raw-papaya-chilies-nuts-and-shrimp concoction came from 100 per cent North-Eastern Thais who have made it the staple for every Thai, particularly stick-thin office girls who munch on it every lunchtime because glua oo-an (afraid of getting fat). No, that’s not the reason. They eat it for the same reason everybody does; it’s the most delicious dish on earth.
And it comes from Thailand, as was sternly decreed at the time by Thai government ministers, business leaders, high-ranking monks, game show hosts and stars of local soap operas. Even comedians took a break from their hilarious routines of dressing up as women, or parading Downs Syndrome men on stage, to condemn Thailand’s nasty neighbor for daring to say somtam wasn’t Thai.
Then the Thai tide turned.
One Thai academic came out, very sheepishly, saying there was evidence that yes, perhaps, maybe, somtam could have originated from around the, well, Vientiane region of the world and, um, he had old papers to prove it.
I can’t really remember what happened next. I do remember the academic photographed beside some hoary old tomes he cited as source material. Either that or he was dragged onto Silom Road, stripped naked, his arms and legs attached to four tuk-tuks that drove off simultaneously in four separate directions at the shrill blast of a police whistle. Was there anybody else who’d like to join him?
Things got worse. Another academic (via midnight postings of home-made posters around the Surawong neighborhood) pointed out that Thailand’s beloved chilies — a base ingredient of every dish Khun Vira is willing to defend against experimenting foreigners — are not native to Thailand. They are as Thai in origin as I am.
Chilies came to Thailand around the 16th century via the Portuguese, who got them from Central America. You can read all about it in an excellent book I recently finished, entitled The Silk Roads by Peter Frankopan, which explains the two-thousand-year history of trade between Europe and China and everywhere in between.
I would then go on to explain to Khun Vira that there was a further king-hit; neither are papaya trees! They first sprouted up as recently as 200 years ago from foreign visitors.
I know, Khun Vira. It’s awful. Those dreaded foreigners introduced the very ingredients you are now trying to protect from dreaded foreigners.
Upon hearing this news, 20 years ago, the Thais knew that they had to do. It’s the same thing we did in Australia when the evidence was overwhelming that our national dish, pavlova, really did come from New Zealand. It hurt, dear reader, but we put our heads down and got on with life.
That’s what the Thais did. Game show hosts took up their microphones and the Downs Syndrome comedian was dusted off and dragged back on stage. The academic’s arms and legs were reattached and he was wheeled back to university.
There is another thing I would gently explain to Khun Vira before asking for the check-bill (and of course, paying it myself). I would remind him, respectfully, that this is the era of Thailand 4.0. It sprang from the realization that only two things will heave Thailand into the 21st century as a strong competitor on the world stage.
Those two things are innovation and technology. Yes, innovation. That extends to the Thai cuisine.
I congratulate the Thai chef over at Suan Dusit University who thought up that magnificent apple and cashew somtam dish. That’s the kind of innovation that keeps Thai culture fresh and alive.
Oh but we have taken up too much of the Minister’s valuable time. Thank you for listening to me, and I would ask you, most humbly, to consider my thoughts and opinions. Perhaps the committee you set up could discuss it over a plate of that Portuguese concoction.
THE CIRCLE OF NAKHON PATHOM
By Andrew Biggs
Greetings from Nakhon Pathom! This week your favorite columnist finds himself in a hotel room for five days in this little town just west of Bangkok.
“Little town” is hardly a good description, though it was certainly that way when I first visited here a quarter-century ago. Bangkok has since extended her tentacles, swallowing up the likes of as Samut Prakan and Nonthaburi and Minburi.
Over to the west is a motley crew of smallish provinces, Nakhon Pathom being one of them, and in the process of being devoured as well. There are two things I associate with Nakhon Pathom, namely the massive historic pagoda smack bang in the middle of town. The other thing I have always associated the province with is unrest, which is kind of weird, until I checked back on my diaries and found out the reason why.
But before we get into that, the pagoda. It is the single most dominant and striking aspect of the night sky through my hotel window.
(The other window looks onto an adjacent apartment block, where I can see into every single apartment and, if I weren’t so deadline-challenged, would spend my evening not unlike Jimmy Stewart in the Alfred Hitchcock movie Rear Window; armed with a lot of curiosity and a discreet telescope. Oh well, there’s always tomorrow night.)
The pagoda at Nakhon Pathom is not your average Buddhist structure. Nor is it technically a pagoda; it is a “stupa.” With a rotund base it resembles a massive upturned burnt-orange bell, shooting 120 metres into the air, making it the tallest stupa in the world.
Original construction began more than 2,000 years ago, but fires and earthquakes and time took their tolls. It has been constantly built upon, the latest incarnation being about 150 years old. It was here that Buddhism first entered the region from India and spread throughout what is now Thailand. The name Nakhon Pathom means “first city” for this reason.
It is 235 metres around the base, which I walked this evening, before returning to my double-windowed hotel room and choosing to open the curtains on the temple side. So why do I also associate this giant stupa with unrest? The answer can be found in my diaries.
At this point I have to confess that as a serial writer I have kept a daily diary for the last 30 years of my life. This may seem unremarkably admirable or obsessive compulsive depending on the way you look at it, but it does serve a purpose. Whenever I need to check back on events, I can pop back into my past. I know exactly when my beloved three-legged dog Kanokwan died (December 6, 2000), or a strange week in 1995 in Koh Samui where my diary entries are nothing but weird drawings of planets and cryptic passages such as NOT MUCH LONGER NOW TILL IT WEARS OFF.
For this reason I know I came to Nakhon Pathom on Friday, May 8, 1992, writing a travel column for The Nation newspaper. I decided to stay the weekend until Sunday lunchtime when I caught a bus back to Bangkok.
No wonder I associate the province with unrest. That was one week before Black May, a series of dark events in modern Thai history which I experienced first-hand.
I had been in Thailand just three years. Only the year before the military had toppled the Chatichai Choonhavan government on the grounds it was corrupt.
Under General Suchinda Kraprayoon, the military set up a government and installed the popular Anand Panyarachun as prime minister. In March, two months before my Nakhon Pathom trip, there were national elections. The winning coalition government appointed General Suchinda as prime minister all over again, despite his not running in a constituency. An unelected prime minister would lead the country.
That was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
This was at a time when the Thai middle class was starting to get a little savvy. It was still a good two or three years before the internet would arrive, but mobile phones had certainly infiltrated society (albeit in the form of bricks). The general feeling was: Why did we just have elections? What was the point if the politicians go ahead and appoint an outsider to lead the country?
This fueled a groundswell of dissidence. These were not rebel-rousers or insurgents. The average Thai was incensed. A middle-class uprising was in progress. And all they wanted was for Suchinda to stand down and an elected prime minister take his place.
I attended one of the first major rallies in Sanam Luang a few nights after I returned to Bangkok from Nakhon Pathom. It was a night I will never forget; a hundred thousand Thais gathered, riding on the backs of pick-up trucks down Ratchadamnoen Avenue into Sanam Luang. I stayed there well into the early morning hours, buoyed by the frenetic energy of the place.
According to my diary I woke up the next morning with a bad cold, no doubt from rubbing shoulders with the masses the night before. I took the day off work and stayed in bed all day. And it was later that night the military rolled the tanks in and started firing mercilessly at the crowds in and around Sanam Luang.
What followed were three hellish days of shootings and cat-and-mouse chases between unarmed protestors and the well-armed military. Average Thais dodged bullets and some did not, with at least 50 dead from the shootings. It would have been even worse were it not for an intervention by King Bhumibol himself. On the night of May 20 a rally was called at Ramkhamhaeng University and I saw, with my own eyes, trucks of armed men in formation moving towards the university just hours before the protest was due to begin.
At around 9 pm that evening, all channels broadcast an amazing scene. His Majesty was seated as he gave a stern lecture to arched enemies General Suchinda and protest leader Chamlong Srimuang, who both sat meekly on the floor after having prostrated themselves before the King. Stop acting like selfish people, the King instructed, and put the interests of the country first.
Immediately after, TV stations televised those two arched rivals with stony faces seated at a table reading prepared speeches. Chamlong would call off the protests. And unelected General Suchinda would stand down, which he did four days later.
What a time in Thai history!
For me it was a fascinating glimpse into the machinations of Thai politics. So many things happened behind the scenes and I watched many of them unfold.
One of my greatest memories; sitting in the newsroom as a more-than-slightly-eccentric Thai reporter approached me in the newsroom and threw down what I thought was a pebble onto my desk.
“Do you know that that is?” he asked, visibly shaken. “A portion of a cranium of a pro-democracy protester shot dead.” Such were the scenes from those out-of-the-ordinary days.
And now, here I am back in Nakhon Pathom. The pagoda hasn’t changed, though bathed in better lighting now, and I am still writing a daily diary.
\But what a chilling coincidence, isn’t it, that I am here on the day the military government is laying plans for an election in which provisions have been made to allow for an unelected prime minister. I hope … I pray … that there is no circle coming around in that regard.
By Andrew Biggs
It has been a week of addiction and idiocy, as your columnist comes to grips with one of the grossest wastes of time he has experienced since standing in line for Krispy Kreme donuts when they first opened here in 2010.
Pokémon Go has been in Thailand just two weeks and already there have been reports of players crashing cars on Sukhumvit, walking into the path of oncoming semi trailers, and finding themselves under the wheels of Northern-bound buses. Is there any better example of people eliminating themselves for the sake of humanity?
Thailand is no worse than anywhere else. Last week I was in Australia and the whole country has turned into Pokémon Zombies, defined as people who get off on capturing non-existent creatures and putting them into little round balls for future use. It is the modern-day Dungeons and Dragons for the dumb.
Hoards of normal Australians (if you can forgive that oxymoron) now wander the streets with their foreheads pressed against their smart phones. Meanwhile in New Zealand one guy gave up his day job to devote his life to hunting Pokémon monsters. His mother was quoted in the media as saying she supports him whole-heartedly, proving that your parents’ genes have the greater influence upon your intelligence, or in this case lack of it, than your environment.
Before Pokémon Go hit Thailand there were rumblings from authorities that the app might have to be banned, because it could be a threat to the nation’s security. Wrong; it is a threat to the nation’s stupidity.
Idiots, I kept hearing myself say. How could a reasonable person waste time with such insipid nonsense?
“Strangle me if you ever see me download such a thing,” I announced in my best holier-than-thou voice at a meeting.
Skip one week into the future.
Prepare the rope.
Monday, August 15, 2016: Download Day
Put it down to journalistic curiosity. Or a case of keeping up with the Somchais.
At 1.15 pm I downloaded the Pokémon Go. And my world completely changed.
First of all, there are TWO Pokémon Stops right outside my school in Phrakhanong! TWO! It explains why so many people have been wandering towards my school, stopping, looking at their phones, and then walking away. They were stocking up on Pokémon balls! And here I was thinking it was my face on the school sign that was sending them away.
Within five minutes I have caught a Bulbasaur, a fat green monster with a seed on its back. At 3 pm I have an appointment at Exchange Tower, and as I wait a Weedle appears on the reception sofa. It takes me three balls to catch the thing, though a little ill-timed, with the chief executive witnessing the event and being diplomatic enough not to comment on what I was doing.
At 4.30 pm I give a speech at a university; in the carpark I manage to catch a Vulpix, three Pidgeys and a Rattata. The feeling is exhilarating; all those creatures in one single area. I contemplate a return trip to the uni at midnight tonight.
In the auditorium prior to the speech I feign a full bladder and ask to go to the bathroom, where I snare a Sandslash at the urinals.
Tuesday, August 16, 2016: Addiction Is A Disease
My home in Samut Prakan is a wasteland for Pokémon monsters. I set my alarm for 4.30 am so that I can catch a few before the day starts, but I may as well be living in the desert. I contemplate moving into an inner city apartment. I send a message to my secretary to check rent prices.
But oh my goodness, if Samut Prakan is a wilderness, Suvarnabhumi Airport is the opposite!
It’s the Patpong Road of the Pokémon world, full of weird snarling monsters just waiting to inflict their venom onto you. I nab Magikarp along with some more Rattatas and Pigeottos. The thrill of the chase is electrifying. I accidentally slam my suitcase into the heels of a Chinese tour group leader chasing a Nidoqueen.
But the day has some bad moments, too.
At the security checkpoint I am angered when I spot a Paras but a killjoy official tells me to move on. There is clearly a Goldeen in the women’s toilets and I contemplate running in but an obscenity rap would do nothing for my career.
The runway proves to be devoid of creatures, too. Maybe it’s the price I pay for choosing a low-cost airline. I reluctantly switch off my phone upon taxiing, realizing I have paid no attention to the flight attendant explaining how to buckle and unbuckle a seat belt, as well as how to properly tie a life vest around myself in the event the plane goes crashing head-first into the Gulf of Thailand.
“Congratulations! You have caught 10 Pokemons!” I am told upon snaring a Spearow at Big C Srinakharin later that evening. I’m up to Level 4 … one more level and I get to pit my strength against others in the Pokémon Gyms! Just thinking about that gives me a tingle in my loins. Which is when I start to get worried.
Wednesday August 17, 2016: Nothing Matters Anymore
The ghost of Nancy Reagan has been whispering in my ear all morning: “Just say no. Just say no.”
But I can’t.
No matter where I go I need to check for Pokémon Stops because like a serial sex addict I am on a constant quest for balls. The more creatures I catch, the more strong is my desire to capture all 151 creatures.
I stare into the small screen of my cellphone all day, all night. I cannot remember my life before Pokémon Go.
“Congratulations! You have caught 10 flying-type Pokemons!” the game flashes at me tonight, only I get a different feeling from the night before. I hear this faint voice in the back of my head, not unlike Nancy Reagan’s, asking: “So what?”
I skipped lunch today. I refused to take two important calls on my cellphone because they came right when I was snaring a Pikachu and Squirtle. When my secretary calls right in the middle of throwing balls at a Metapod, I scream at her for the first time ever, asking what the hell she wants.
“I have a list of inner-city apartments for you,” she says meekly.
Thursday August 18, 2016: Deleted
I have a moment of clarity upon awakening this morning. It is long enough to realize the folly of the last two days.
I quickly delete Pokémon Go.
As I write this it has been six hours and yes, I admit there is a hole in my life.
I have the urge to download it again but I check myself. There are too many things I need to do in my life that are meaningful. One of them is not being a slave to my smart phone.
Pokémon Go withdrawal is not easy, but I’ll get through it. If only this were something less addictive, like alcohol or narcotics. At least there are support groups for those things.
Alone, as a recovering Pokéholic, I am following the two steps toward freedom from this game; that is, delete, then find something less intoxicating to replace it, like methamphetamines. I’m doing lots of deep breathing, meditation, and reading Buddhist Dharma books and it’s all good.
Besides, I’ve just been introduced to League of Legends. It’s fantastic. You see it’s this international war game where you fight in teams against people from all over the world and you get to assume all these identities as you smash and kill and throw bombs and …
BRISBANE: A CITY WITH TICKETS ON ITSELF
By Andrew Biggs
My good friend Tony Preece is going to sing at the Lord Mayor’s Senior Cabaret Concert at Brisbane City Hall this Sunday afternoon.
The concert is billed as featuring “famous Brisbane singing stars of yesteryear.” I had no idea Brisbane had such performers outside of the Bee Gees, and I know they’re not taking the stage.
Nevertheless I am thrilled to have a friend who is a famous singing star of yesteryear. He’s going to perform Lena Horne’s If You Believe, complete with flamboyant scarf, he claims.
The concert starts at 2 pm and finishes at 3.30. Tickets are five bucks each. And by a coincidence I am in Brisbane at the same time as the event!
Tony is thrilled. “You may have to dodge the Zimmer frames and mobility scooters on the way in,” he says via email. “But no need to rush to get there. I’m number 17 on the program.”
And so, at 2.30 pm, I rock up to the deserted Brisbane City Hall foyer with my 84-year-old mother, my sister and Thai friend. There is a young security official sitting just inside city hall wearing a single earphone and uniform.
He looks up at me slowly as I approach.
“I’m here to see the Senior Citizen’s Cabaret,” I say.
“Do you have tickets?”
“The ticket sellers left at 2.25,” he says. “Five minutes ago.”
“So … where can I get tickets now?”
“The ticket sellers left at 2.25,” he repeats, clearly insinuating I am either deaf or an idiot, with an emphasis on the latter.
“Oh — so the concert is full?”
“Oh no,” he quickly answers, as if that suggestion is ludicrous. “No.” “Well can I just pop into the back of the auditorium and sit somewhere there?”
“You need a ticket,” he says, shaking his head.
“But the ticket sellers went home at 2.25,” I say.
Apparently that is the end of the conversation. Either that, or I am in a recurring scene that will stretch on for eternity.
Then, a miracle.
A smart young woman appears in a black suit carrying a clutch of tickets! The security guard calls her over and I explain my situation.
She is very accommodating. She smiles and furrows her brow. “I’m sorry but the ticket sellers left at 2.25,” she says.
“Yes I know that,” I say. “Couldn’t I just give you 20 bucks and you can let me in?”
“I can’t accept any money.”
“But what about all those tickets in your hands?”
She looks at them. “These are reserved tickets.”
I look at my own watch. “But they haven’t turned up.” This is a concert for the elderly, and perhaps some of the ticket holders may have unexpectedly shaken off their mortal coil between reservation and event. I don’t say this, of course; but I do stress the fact it’s now after 2.30 pm.
“Couldn’t you give me some of the reserved tickets of people who haven’t shown up?”
This is clearly not a Brisbane thing to do. She makes a very unhappy face. “But what if they turn up later?”
“The concert apparently is nowhere near full. They could sit anywhere.”
“But they are reserved seats.”
She bites her lip and looks around. “Hold on a minute,” she says, and darts off to another security man standing by the large Brisbane City Hall doors. They carry on a furtive conversation. He looks at his watch then shoots me arrows of disapproval. I want to run over and apologize — perhaps prostate myself at his feet — explaining that where I live, in Thailand, a 2 pm concert start means arriving at 2.45 (and then leaving at 3.10, though he doesn’t need to know that).
I am too far away to hear the conversation between Clutch of Tickets and Security Hitler, but I do hear snippets such as “rules are rules” and “the ticket sellers went home at 2.25” and “breach of security”.
Breach of security?
Brisbane is trying to brand itself as an international city, and with that comes all the accompanying terrorist threats. But come on. I know suicide bombers aren’t the brightest sparks in the Islamic bulb factory, but what jihadist worth his salt would press the button on his vest at a sparsely-attended assembly of geriatric infidels, as opposed to, say, a State of Origin match attended by ten thousand?
Oh but the Clutch of Tickets is back.
“Sorry,” she says.
Then she leans forward conspiratorially. “Look, I’ll tell you what I can do. I’ve got this one ticket here from somebody who tried to cancel at the last minute. I can give it to you, and one of you can go in.”
The situation just crashed and burned.
I came here expecting to enjoy an afternoon of Tony hopefully hitting the notes to a Lena Horne classic, and I end up with a Sophie’s Choice moment! Do I go in to see Tony perform and send my mother and sister to the gas chamber? Even I can’t do that!
It is time for me to pull out the big guns. “Look,” I say. “All I want to do is see my friend Tony sing. Forget Simon Gallaher and the rest. I won’t even sit down. I’ll stand at the back. We’ll stand throughout the whole damned concert if we must, behind all those empty seats. I promise to spend no longer than the entirety of Lena Horne’s If You Believe inside that auditorium. Could we at least do that?”
“Hold on a sec.”
She runs to the main doors of the auditorium to an older gentleman with a beard, another official paid by the local council, no doubt, to perform the exacting task of informing the general public that the ticket sellers went home at 2.25 pm.
While she is away it is my 84-year-old mother who makes the best suggestion of all; why not catch the elevator to the observation tower? On the way down we could get off at balcony level and just duck into the auditorium that way.
Ingenious! Now I know where I get my cunning from! And yet her idea is fraught with difficulties.
There are probably security cameras installed all over Brisbane City Hall. Imagine the four of us being spotted on the security system whilst committing the heinous act of breaking into the Lord Mayor’s Senior Cabaret Concert. Would I be detained and arrested? And what if the news gets out? I don’t think I could live with the shame of illegally trespassing into a geriatric concert. Katy Perry maybe, but a geriatric concert …
The Clutch of Tickets is back.
Again, the prognosis is bleak. There is no last-minute reprieve from the governor. Rules are rules. And the ticket sellers went home at 2.25, she reminds us.
“I’m sorry, but my head would be on the chopping block,” she says.
She is looking devastated, having now tried to negotiate with three security types, not to mention being swallowed up in a system that is as Orwellian as it is Monty Python. I feel as though I am falling in love with her; Stockholm Syndrome no doubt.
I touch her reassuringly on the arm, though only lightly, for fear of being slapped with a sexual harassment charge. Stranger things have happened this afternoon, believe me.
“It’s alright. I understand. You did your best.” And with that, she was gone, as we were too.
Tony calls the next day.
The concert had been a success; despite being sparsely attended, and his being number 17 on the programme, his rendition of Lena Horne’s If You Believe was well received that Sunday afternoon.
“Though the organization was a bit of a shambles,” he says. “The show didn’t start until 3 pm.”
UP, UP AND AWAY
By Andrew Biggs
Nong Max was born into a rural Thai family 15 years ago in the far north-eastern province of Nakhon Phanom.
That province is 750 km from Bangkok, which makes Nakhon Phanom about halfway to Macau in China.
It’s not exactly on the tourist track; Ho Chi Minh did hide out there, plotting the Viet Minh independence movement, from 1928 to 1931 in a small under-the-radar village called Ban Nachok. I once visited his home there and while historically significant, it is probably not worth driving all of 750 km to see it — unless you were on the way to Macau and needed a pit stop. But let us get back to Max.
This soft-spoken Thai kid lived in Nakhon Phanom throughout his primary school years. Then life threw him a curveball. His mother met and married an Australian, who took his new family to live in Australia. Suddenly he was a student at Indooroopilly High School in Brisbane, Queensland, Australia.
So what happened to this introspective Thai country boy who got thrust into a school of 1,500 boisterous Australian students? Did he sink or swim?
I am writing this column from an inner-city hotel in Brisbane, in the middle of a fascinating week exploring the education scene in Queensland, my home state in Australia.
Readers may be surprised to learn that your sophisticated Bangkok Post columnist actually has his roots in a southern Brisbane suburb of Sunnybank, where the word “chic” was only ever uttered when followed by “-ken coop.” Sunnybank, when I was little, was a semi-rural community, full of British expats making their new homes amid the custard apple, strawberry and avocado farms of the region. And chicken coops, like the farm next door to us.
(While Sunnybank may have been exquisite in its mundanity, we did receive a visit from Queen Elizabeth in 1970. She was taken to a swimming pool and mini-zoo complex full of mangy koalas and rabid kangaroos called The Oasis in Sunnybank. One can only imagine the number of stifled yawns behind royal gloves on that sweltering day.)
Back then there was one Chinese family living there. Jump forward to today, and Sunnybank is entirely Asian. As I said during a speech at the newly-opened Thai Consulate in Brisbane this week, there is probably only one single white Australian family living in Sunnybank these days. Facetious, I know, but written with love.
Brisbane has to qualify for one of the most culturally diverse places on the planet. What was, just four decades ago, a city of a million white people has doubled in size and now features every single race and color. And yet we still retain our slightly nerdy, hillbilly flavor as Australia’s biggest country town.
Take Cavendish Road State High School, for example. Back in the 70s “Cav Road” was a bit of a rough old place with limited resources and not exactly an honor roll of students.
You should see it now; its 1,500 students come from 60 different countries and a top-notch sporting program.
It is a statistic that repeats itself over and over. Max’s school, Indooroopilly High, now has 60 different native languages on their campus, and it teaches the International Baccalaureate program along with some very unique programs as you are about to discover.
Queensland’s main vocational college, TAFE, used to be the place to go if you weren’t so academically minded but had to study somewhere because your parents forced you to. The coin has completely flipped; this year 125,000 students from 60 countries are enrolled in 180 courses. And you should see the educational resources they have; the Nursing course features a mock-up of a hospital complete with ageing anatomically-correct mannequins. Yes, dear reader, I looked.
Queensland has is now what I believe to be the best place in Australia for a Thai to study. The old system of rote learning is out the window, as the state grapples and experiments with new methodologies that are student-oriented and stress analysis and critical thinking.
Cav Road, for instance, is trialing the new method of teaching known as STEM, incorporating the four subjects of Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics. It was fascinating sitting in on two STEM classes this week, as Grade 8’s and Grade 11’s sat in groups experimenting with ways to solve gravitational and velocity problems using those subjects.
Every Thai student I spoke to said they preferred the system in Queensland because “the teacher’s aren’t as strict and there isn’t so much testing.” That is interesting, considering that’s the opposite of two fundamental tenets of Thai education and yet without them, you have an educational system far superior to what we have in Thailand.
The emphasis in Australia appears to be moving away from one-size-fits-all-evaluation, too. It doesn’t rely on sub-standard, badly-written national tests like the ones we have in Thailand. Instead education appears to be both centralized and de-centralized at the same time. Under the new system, teachers are required to submit their teaching plans to a central committee for approval — but teachers are able to devise their own curricula based on their local communities.
At this point in my column I must hurry to say that Queensland isn’t perfect. The overhaul of the national curriculum is causing headaches everywhere. Schools are sometimes wracked with internal politics and media scandals, but where isn’t?
The state also has crime and political bickering. It has social problems including race issues; we just re-elected the odious Pauline Hanson and her One Nation party that preaches hate towards Asians and, more recently, Muslims.
Despite all this, it is the face of education that excites me the most.
An example is the main picture on this page. You’re looking at the Grade 11 class for the subject called Aerospace at Indooroopilly State High School. It’s taught by some very dynamic teachers including one former commercial airline pilot (the lady in red at the back).
These students spend most of their time out on the field building rockets and drones. In the classroom they study topics like Aeronautics and Astronautics. Best of all, they have their own flight simulator where they learn to take off, fly and land in any type of airplane in any major airport in the world.
So for all its faults, the Queensland system does recognize diversity in student skill sets, and is willing to invest in it with resources. It is a world away from the Thai education system, where we seem to place greater importance on constructing the most impressive marble school sign out the front of the campus.
Speaking of recognizing diversity, just look at the array of ethnicities of these Aerospace students. This is the new face of Australia.
And if you look very closely, right in the middle of the class pic, wearing the biggest smile, is our very own Max from Nakhon Phanom!
Of course he didn’t sink. He swam for his life, excelling in Aeronautics. He’s a still a little quiet and gangly in a typical teenage Year 11 sort of way, but he’s not far away from his dream of becoming a commercial pilot. Best of all, he has promised to upgrade me if ever I happen to be a passenger on any of his flights.
And indeed, it was with a tremendous sense of pride not just in Max but in his capacity as a Thai student that I sat next to him in the flight simulator, watching as he took off, flew around Brisbane and then crash-landed in a terrible conflagration after missing the runway. Twice. But hey, that’s what flight simulators are for. He made it the third time. That’s all that matters.
KICKING MUSICAL KIDS WHERE IT HURTS
By Andrew Biggs
This week your favorite columnist met up with Somtow Sucharitkul, Thailand’s famed composer, conductor and lapsed horror writer at Emquartier for lunch and a chat.
The last time I saw Somtow was at his inner-city residence where he lent me a book from his formidable collection about life at Eton School. “Be sure to return it,” he said in what remained of an Etonian accent, albeit beaten down by the ravages of time plus a stint in the United States.
I assured him I would return the book, expressing concern that he would even think I would fail to do so, and indeed, within a week I had read it and put it aside for our next luncheon.
That was a year ago.
This week we caught up again, and after exchanging pleasantries along with a book and an apology, I casually remarked that he was looking well.
“You need not say such a thing,” he said. “I have been to hell and back.”
He then proceeded to tell me an extraordinary story.
Somtow heads Opera Siam, its showcase being the youth orchestra known as Siam Sinfonietta. This is an orchestra of 14-to-25 year olds, mainly university students, who are an exciting array of musical talent.
I know this orchestra well, since I emcee their annual New Year’s Concert at the Thai Cultural Center and have on rare occasions even performed with them. They get by on loads of talent, loads of enthusiasm, and budget-wise, the skin of their teeth.
Thailand does have its classical music patrons, and Opera Siam is supported by the likes of Thai Bev, AIS, PTT, the Crown Property and the Bangkok Metropolitan Administration (BMA).
In August the orchestra did something very special; they went to Germany and the Czech Republic during the European opera season to perform The Silent Prince, Somtow’s opera about the life of Buddha. It was the first of ten operas he is writing about the lives of Buddha called Das Jati (pronounced Tot-sachart).
Thai musicians playing classical music on the European playing field, as opposed to being seen as a cursory exotic curiosity, is remarkable. And if Thailand is serious about having a good reputation overseas, it is worthy of support.
This is a country where face is of utmost importance, and retaining Thailand’s international reputation can be difficult at times when tourists get murdered on Kao Tao, or when human trafficking rears its ugly head, or even when unelected militia take over.
A Thai orchestra performing to standing ovations in the heartland of classical music can only be positive for Thailand. And that is what happened, when the orchestra performed four times — twice at a youth festival in Bayreuth, Germany, on August 10 and 11 and then in Prague and Brno, Czech Republic on August 13 and 17. They even received critical acclaim in the European press.
But while they were over there the whole thing was nearly destroyed, and not by the Europeans either.
The logistics of getting 70 Thais over to Bayreuth, Germany, for two weeks is staggering and expensive. The trip consumed half their annual budget, even with the performers agreeing not to be paid. This was an experience of a lifetime and a labor of love, but despite all that there were airline tickets to be paid for and hotel rooms to be booked.
The one remaining payment of 4.6 million baht, from the BMA, would pay for the day-to-day costs of living in Europe for two weeks. The Bangkok governor, his deputies, and everybody else promised them the payment. A sheath of papers was signed just prior to the troupe hopping a plane to Germany.
Seven days later, one day after The Silent Prince’s first standing ovation, the BMA deputy governor sent a Facebook message to Somtow’s sister. Owing to an administrative bureaucratic technicality, he said, the BMA would not be paying them.
Seventy young Thais were effectively stranded in Germany with no money for food or accommodation or means of getting around.
“It was an uneasy 72 hours,” Somtow told me over lunch.
This was not the first time the BMA had reneged on payments to Siam Sinfonietta. In May the BMA had ordered the opera to stage a performance of the ballet Suriyothai, promising to pay them 2 million baht for the event.
One week out of the performance, the BMA pulled out. “Somebody won’t sign,” was the reason given.
As a way of making it up to Siam Opera, the BMA agreed to pay 4.6 million baht for the daily expenses of the European tour. And once again the BMA reneged, only this time it wasn’t before the event; it was while the kids were performing on the other side of the world. Again, somebody wouldn’t sign.
Worse, the story threatened to hit the European press. One German journalist wanted to run the story of 70 young Thai artists stranded in Europe thanks to a heartless government back home. When that journalist contacted Somtow, our maestro pleaded with him to hold the story.
“Give me a few days,” he said.
Somtow believes he didn’t sleep for the next three nights. He rehearsed during the day and at night he called everybody he knew in Thailand asking for any help whatsoever.
“Many came to the party,” he said. The stories of Thais back home rising to the occasion for the sake of the musicians are heart-warming. One of the parents of a chorus member raised half a million baht among her relatives. The son of a prominent statesman contributed another half a million. Another generous patron wired a two million baht loan to them instantly, adding: “Pay me back whenever he can.” That man should be running the BMA.
Perhaps most surprising; even the German journalist, knowing how desperate they were, went to his ATM and gave Somtow 1,000 Euros, his ATM limit, on a daily basis.
“Within three days I’d raised three and a half million baht from some truly generous people,” said Somtow. “At that moment we knew we would survive the tour.”
Even more extraordinary was the fact Somtow’s iPhone and passport were stolen and he became a victim of identity theft; this all happening as he was trying to drum up financial support. “So you can see, you don’t need to say I look well,” he said over lunch.
Somtow says he doesn’t want to highlight the nightmare of the BMA, because it will take away from the generosity of those people who helped out. “It also detracts from the real story of our trip, which is that Thai classical musicians are being perceived as peers and not just as performing monkeys.”
He has glowing reviews from European newspapers to prove this. The musicians were lauded for their amalgamation of east and west, and their professional display of contemporary musical performance.
“This is a huge breakthrough in the way Thai creativity is being perceived in Europe,” he said. “Although it nearly killed me.”
What a story. I can’t imagine being left penniless with 70 underlings in Europe, along with having my passport and phone stolen and somebody using my credit cards. But Opera Siam got through it and survived.
And the BMA?
One can’t help but feel a little sad that the BMA was able to find 39 million baht for a Light of Happiness light show over New Year, and another 16.5 million baht to renovate the governor’s office. Everybody signed off on those.
But when it comes to a mere 4.6 million for 70 Thai musicians putting on a glowing performance in Europe — too-hard basket. When are the next gubernatorial elections again?
A MOST IRRESPONSIBLE STUDENT
By Andrew Biggs
The older woman appears at the classroom door five minutes into the lesson, staring blankly at us all.
Her hair is short and held back by a colorless hairband. Her faded clothes compliment her displeasure, and there is a permanent downturn at both ends of her mouth. It is difficult to discern whether the blank look is one of disapproval or disinterest. We are about to find out.
Our lecturer pauses mid-sentence, then glances over to the apparition behind the glass of the door, which is her cue to enter.
“This room hasn’t been booked for a lecture,” she says.
“Our room was locked so we took this room instead,” says our lecturer.
“Yes, but this room hasn’t been booked for a lecture,” the woman repeats.
“We were locked out of our room,” says our lecturer. “Rather than cancelling, we found this room was empty and took it instead.”
Such circular conversations are common in Thailand, but here it is lecturer versus maid, two vastly different points on the Thai class scale, so it is inevitable the circle must break soon.
“Rooms need to be booked,” says the maid. “And this room hasn’t been booked. Somebody has to take responsibility,” and just in case we did not hear, she repeats: “Somebody has to take responsibility.”
It is Saturday afternoon, and your columnist is sitting in a university classroom trying to understand the subject Statistics in Educational Research. I am studying for a Master’s Degree, my latest project that seemed like such a good idea at the time. It requires me to sacrifice two years of weekends, substituting drinking sessions for study groups. If there is any downward fluctuation in Absolut stocks you will know why.
Statistics starts at 1 pm and finishes three hours later. It is a subject that requires extreme concentration, a calculator and a bottle of Tylenol. But last Saturday a crisis occurred; somebody in the upper echelons of the university retired … and that somebody didn’t unlock our lecture room door, leaving all 21 students and our statistics lecturer stranded outside the room.
The upper echelons? Isn’t unlocking lecture rooms the work of the lowly admin staff like the maid at the door right now?
In Thai universities there is a very distinct hierarchy of influence. Those at the very bottom are clerical staff. The next group up are bachelor-degree lecturers, who are trumped by the Master degree lecturers, who are trumped by PhD lecturers. Second from the top is the Dean.
Perched at the very top of this hierarchy are the maids and technical staff. These people are responsible for turning on air conditioners, switching on lights, firing up computers and ensuring the sound system is at proper volume. The Dean can take a sickie and that doesn’t affect me in the slightest. But what about when the guy who unlocks the doors retires?
Thus in the scenario between the lecturer and the maid above, the maid was the upper echelon.
Last Friday 22,959 Thai civil servants collectively packed their bags and left their offices for the very last time. It happens every September 30.
That is a sizeable chunk of Thailand’s 2.19 million civil servants, who turn 60 and celebrate the end of decades of pushing, shoving, needling, cat fighting, bitching, slapping, crawling, back-stabbing, office politicking and sycophanticizing as they work their way up the civil service ladder. Our lecture was thwarted by one official retiring but we are not alone. All over the country it is impossible to get anything signed or approved (or unlocked) at this time thanks to people retiring and not wanting to take responsibility, or those assuming new positions and not wanting to take responsibility for old projects.
The keys are still there; in fact, we can see them. When we ask the chief security guard to unlock the door, he looks mortified and shakes his head. “I cannot be responsible for that,” he says.
Responsible. The word is rup pid chorb in Thai. What an interesting, and maddening, glimpse into the psyche of workers in this country; that responsibility is a dirty word.
In the western word, responsibility is something we aspire to, isn’t it? The more we have, the greater a person we are.
It is not the same here. Rup pid chob is a dirty word; often equated with the dire consequences of something bad, such as having to pay money or being put in the spotlight for a decision you made.
It is this negative aspect of the word that embroils the maid at the top of this story. We have barged into her terrain, switched on the lights, fired up the computers, turned on the air conditioning, and even managed to get the speakers going all by ourselves. She was extraneous and, worse, uninformed.
Our enterprise takes on frightening proportions because it was outside the line of authority. What if a fuse blows in the speaker system? The red tape to get one replaced would be horrendous for that woman, not to mention having to be responsible for it since she tacitly allowed us in. She might even have to pay for it herself.
Outside the original locked room, the security guard cannot rup pid chorb the simple act of unlocking a door. We feel frustrated and infuriated and worse — it is now starting to rain.
There is an adjacent building full of classrooms. Despite three rooms in this building unlocked and unused, the technician there tells us we cannot use a room. We haven’t signed for one in advance. “It is my responsibility if something goes wrong,” the technician tells our lecturer over the phone.
“This is nonsensical,” says our lecturer. “Come on students. We’re going over there.”
And so we all march over in defiance of the upper echelon. Earlier that day we studied Thomas Hobbes’s Leviathan in Philosophy; he would have disapproved of our actions, but sometimes you just have to stage an uprising.
We enter the first empty room, switch everything on ourselves, and our lecture begins. Five minutes later the blank woman, who is the maid responsible for that room, has appeared.
“If you stay, and somebody finds out, then I will be the one who is punished,” she tells us, three times in a row, each time finishing with: “It is not my responsibility.”
Then she glances at the lights, and the air conditioning, and the speaker system, and the computer. A look of horror crosses her face.
“Who turned all these things on?” she asks, slowly but chillingly. Now we are in big trouble.
“The lights can only be turned on by the technical staff,” she says. “Or me.”
Despite her threats, it is clear we are not budging. Besides, it has started to rain.
As the only farang in the room I consider assuming the role of bad guy and saying something like: “Listen, lady. Take you and your alternate-universe glad rags out of this room and let us get on with the task in hand. This is an institute of higher learning!” But before I can even mouth the word “Listen” she has turned to leave.
“Well allright, I will go,” she says finally.
Silence from us.
“I’m just saying, I’m the one who will get into trouble, and it’s not my responsibility.”
More silence from us.
“I don’t want to be the one who gets into trouble,” she repeats.
She pauses and gives a shrug of her shoulders.
“I don’t care,” she says, looking at us with mild disgust and yet with a glint of triumph. “I’m 60 years old. I’m retiring this Friday.”
PURGING THE H-WORD
By Andrew Biggs
This week sees the rounding up and hauling away of unsavory animals from the middle of Bangkok and no, that doesn’t mean a coup nor a police raid on Nana Plaza. Lizards, dear reader … lizards.
Lumpini Park’s famed monitor lizards are once again being captured, bagged and sent, so officials claim, to “a wildlife breeding center near Ratchaburi.” That sounds suspiciously like code for “factory that processes meat for Chinese dumplings”, doesn’t it?
The official reason is there are more than 400 Asian monitor lizards in the 60-hectares of Lumpini Park and that’s too many, according to the Bangkok Metropolitan Administration that looks after the park.
These lizards grow up to 3 metres long and resemble mini-dinosaurs. They have been scaring early-morning joggers, weekend families and — the most timid group of all — bicyclists. The BMA claims they have received complaints from cyclists just mortified to find monitor lizards infringing on their bike lanes! The nerve of them!
See this is the problem that arises when we designate areas for parkland rather than condos and shopping centers. Wildlife springs up in the greenery and ponds, including Thailand’s famous giant monitor lizards who propagate like crazy.
I do not frequent Lumpini Park, being in a busy part of the city and besides, there are way too many monitor lizards and timorous cyclists. I am more of a Rama 9 Park man myself.
We too have monitor lizards over there. I have seen the occasional one crawling along the running path in the early morning, though I reacted in a different manner to the Lumpini Park cyclists. Instead of squealing and raising my arms in shock (thus crashing the bike), I merely stepped around the creature and continued my run. Sensible, I know, but it does protect the Rama 9 Park water lizards from ending up in Chinese dumplings.
This is not the first time we’ve had a lizard crackdown.
Five years ago Lumpini Park officials rounded up 50 of the lizards in another highly-publicized event. It occurred as a result of one lizard falling out of a tree, striking a woman in the face and causing her to have stitches. At least somebody got hurt in that one.
Why all the fuss? A visitor to Thailand may be wondering this. Last Tuesday, as officials started capturing their quota of 40 lizards, there was a huge number of Thai media at the event … on a par with any appearance by the prime minister or Miss Thailand. To capture measly lizards?
Well, it’s a little more than that.
You see, here in Thailand this humble reptile, that’s walked the earth for 300 million years, is at the heart of one of the worst things you can call a Thai.
Over in western culture we use all manner of different animals as disparaging remarks, such as “dog”, “ass”, “snake” and “pig”. “Animal” even.
It is testament to the power of the spoken word that we can become furious just by the mention of an animal’s name. Imagine a drunken stranger at Nana Plaza bumping into you then calling you an “animal”, or a “dog”, or …
… a “monitor lizard”.
Did the last one raise your hackles? Probably not, if you were born outside Thailand. Yet for 68 million Thais, being called a “monitor lizard” is enough to have them reaching for their pistol shoved discreetly down their underwear.
How interesting is that? I can see that a monitor lizard isn’t the most attractive animal on the planet, but there are far uglier animals; spiders and scorpions, for example, or those hideous shih tzu dogs you see on leashes.
A monitor lizard is a reptile, and even in the English language being called a reptile isn’t nice. But Thais plucked one animal from that genus and hate it with a vengeance. Calling a Thai a “monitor lizard” can shorten your life to oh, as long as it takes for the bullet to explode in your brain and that gun to go back into the underpants.
The Thai word for “monitor lizard” sounds exactly the same as “here” in English, spoken as if you are stressing the word.
Thus, calling the class roll can make for hilarious antics if Thai students are instructed to shout out “Here” as students do back home. “You are here!” will reduce any schoolboy to hysterics. Get it? “You are a monitor lizard!” Cue canned laughter.
This word … here … is so offensive it is all but banned in the broadcast media.
In fact the Thais have invented a new word for the animal to avoid using the H-word. It’s tua ngern tua tong, translated as a “silver thing, gold thing,” based on the lizard’s color, and taking all the fun out of hurling insults.
In fact bigwigs were so determined to stop Thais using the H-word that one high-ranking official publicly suggested that the H-word should be changed to a polite Thai female name.
The genus for monitor lizard is Varanus Salvator, sounding a little like the beautiful Thai name Voranoot. His flippant comment stuck, and to this day many Thais call the ugly lizard by this name, which is about as ridiculous as changing the name of “monitor lizard” to “Veronica” or “Delilah”.
This is the real reason why Thais want the monitor lizards out of Lumpini Park so desperately, not because of the rapid promulgation of the species.
Please don’t go using this newfound Thai vocabulary on anybody who gets your goat (… goat! Another animal!). It is truly dangerous to call any Thai a monitor lizard.
It is one of the “big three” animals Thais use to chastise others. If you’re stupid, you are a “buffalo” or khwai, which kind of baffled me at first because I never assumed a buffalo to be any more stupid than, say, a goat or a sheep. In fact I like buffalos; they are sturdy hard-working animals who are loyal and taste good in a stir-fry with oyster sauce.
The other big bad one is a dog, or ma spoken with a rising tone. There’s a wonderful Thai idiom where they say they will “perform surgery to remove the dog from your mouth”, meaning you are saying really obnoxious things.
Other animals pop up in the Thai language as insults. You are a “cobra” if you swap allegiances. You’re a “pig” if you weigh more than 60 kg, i.e., morbidly obese in Thailand.
You are an old man with “the head of a snake” if you hang around bars trying to pick up girls a third your age. You’re a “gourami fish” if you’re a man with a great physique but ugly as sin, and you’re a “gibbon” if you’re a woman — a derogatory term used by transgenders for the sex they want so much to resemble.
Readers of this column who frequent Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy may be surprised to learn there is no sign of “butterfly” on this list.
That’s because the Thai language has no such analogy to describe a person who flits from partner to partner. Nor does English, by the way. Three cheers to those Nana Plaza workers who managed to come up with an idiom used exclusively in seedy bars in inner-city Bangkok; the very same girls who fawn over their drunken clientele with broken English.
And what is the Thai word for “drunken clientele”? It’s a sweet “my darling” to your face. You know the reptilian vocabulary they use behind your back.
SQUABBLES AT THE SCHOOL
By Andrew Biggs
Running a language school, where the students on the weekends are predominantly little kids, can be daunting at times. You are forever putting out bushfires.
Like two weekends ago, when Somsak had a long face throughout Saturday.
Something was definitely not right. His happy-go-lucky nature took a definite nose dive to the point where it started to affect everybody else at the school. It was one of those situations where I had to take some course of action, so during a teaching break I called him over to my desk and asked him what was wrong.
“Nothing,” he said with a pout.
“Are you sure?”
\“That’s interesting,” I replied. “Because normally you’re laughing and joking around. Can you tell me what’s wrong?”
I was once told by a very wise Thai that when you need to discipline or reprimand a Thai, one good way is to praise him or her first. It sounds a little juvenile and an integral part of Philosophy 101 but it really does work. Point out something good, then at the very end bring up what needs to be adjusted. It is similar to the old journalistic interview technique; prepare ten questions with the first nine being superfluous fluff the interviewee would love to answer — then hit him with the sensitive one at the very end.
So I tried a different tack.
“Somsak, you know what I like about you? You’re clever. You’re entertaining. You work hard, and your English is great.”
Somsak looked down into his lap. There were no signs of the glacier melting.
“You’re creative and co-operative, and you always do the tasks assigned to you,” I said. By this time I was running out of compliments, and besides, Somsak’s face was not budging.
“How about this,” I said. “Just tell me the truth. What’s upsetting you? Come on. I promise I won’t tell another soul.”
Somsak looked to the left and right, pouted a little more, then finally answered:
Ah, now I was getting somewhere! Progress! What was it Confucius said about the longest journey beginning with a single step? Never mind … I had questions to ask.
“What about Chanphen? You two seem to get along just fine.”
“She said a bad thing about me.”
“She said I took money and didn’t return it.”
“You borrowed money from Chanphen?”
“No! It’s a lie!”
Chanphen, who sits next to Somsak, can be a little naughty, and does like to stir up trouble now and then. But she always seemed to be friends with Somsak. What had gone wrong? What could possibly have happened?
“Have you spoken to Chanphen about this?”
Somsak folded his arms and looked defiantly outside the window into the car park.
Of course he hasn’t. It is very Thai to hold grudges without confronting the enemy. The ill feeling ferments until it finally explodes one way or another. I was trying to diffuse Somsak. I don’t know if I was succeeding. The more he spoke, the more the mountain looked set to blow.
“I’m never going to speak to her ever again,” he said. “Never ever again. Never ever!”
“Never ever again is a long time,” I said, trying to sound kind and wise, but sounding a little trite. “Especially when you have to sit next to her.”
“She’s always trying to hurt me! And she accused me of borrowing money and not returning it! I know because someone else told me.”
I was determined to solve this little school tiff that was threatening to turn into World War 3. It was a little later I ran into Chanphen running down the corridor, and I called her aside into my office. “What’s going on with you and Somsak?” I asked.
Chanphen looked perplexed. She shrugged her shoulders, which is considered an impolite thing to do in Thailand, especially for a girl, but Chanphen is a bit of a tomboy in the western sense of the word. While I like Chanphen, and she has been with us for a while, I am also aware she likes to stir others.
“Do you like Somsak?”
“Sure,” she said, looking down at the textbook in her hand with more than a touch of guilt.
“Tell the truth,” I said.
“Well, he’s a little wishy-washy but he’s okay.”
“Did you accuse him of borrowing money and not returning it?”
A flash of guilt, replaced by a veneer of innocence. “No, I never did that! He’s lying! I wouldn’t say that!”
“Calm down … calm down. I’m just asking.”
“But I never!”
I was dreading it, but I know I had to call them both into my office. I decided to do the farang thing and confront the problem head-on. “Okay Somsak,” I said, “Tell Chanphen why you’re upset.”
Anger flared up immediately. “You said I borrowed money and didn’t return it!”
“I did not!”
“I don’t have to prove it! I know it’s true!”
“It is not!”
“It is too!”
“Okay enough!” I shouted in my best teacher voice. “Who told you about this, Somsak?”
Somsak folded his arms, pouted then pursed his lips. “I’m not saying.”
“You say it!” shouted back Chanphen. “Who said I said it?”
This was going nowhere fast.
“Somsak claims it isn’t true,” I said.
“Okay fine,” said Chanphen.
]“So if that’s the case, is it possible to forget this entire incident?” I asked.
Chanphen shrugged her shoulders. “Sure,” she said.
“I’ll never forget it,” said Somsak.
“Well the two of you have to sit in the same room. Can you at least try to be civil to each other?”
Chanphen said she would. Somsak nodded and said: “But she said I borrowed money.”
“Yes, Somsak, I know, but it’s time for you to look ahead, not backwards. It’s a little like learning the future tense instead of the past tense in English class. Now do you think you could do that?” I added, sheepishly: “For me?”
The ensuing five seconds of silence felt like an eternity. But there was a reward at the end. Somsak nodded.
“Okay, now I want you both to shake hands and make an effort to be friends again.”
Incredibly they shook hands. Sure they were sheepish, and I did see Chanphen wiping her hand on her dress after. But it was a start.
Did my intervention help things?
Who knows. Having taught, and worked, with Thais for more than two decades, I realize that classrooms and workplaces can be minefields. Faces get lost easier than erasers and rulers do.
In the case of Somsak and Chanphen, the important thing is to try to get them to look forward. Half the battle is trying to get each side to stop apportioning blame. But grudges can be very tough in the Land of Smiles.
And yet things appear to be okay at my little school.
]Last weekend was fine. Students were happy, teachers were on time, parents waited patiently. There were no major mishaps in class. In fact none of our students has ever had any major personality clashes like the one between Chanphen and Somsak.
That’s right. Somsak and Chanphen are my staff, not my students. Chanphen is 45 years old; Somsak is 52.
(First published October 20, 2016, the week after HM King Bhumibol passed away)
By Andrew Biggs
I received the royal pendant almost 10 years ago; a small, metallic pin shaped in the insignia of His Majesty the King.
It was presented upon completion of my services for the 60th Anniversary Celebrations of His Majesty King Bhumibol’s Accession to the Throne. The brooch is small and elegant in its triangular form with an emerald green background.
The pendant came with a commemorative backpack featuring the royal insignia. I used that backpack until it wore out, not just because of its insignia, but for its functionality. I was forever being asked where I got it from. I was even offered money for it once and yes, dear reader, I refused.
If the backpack was used into the ground, then the opposite could be said of that precious little royal pendant.
I am not a collector of jewelry; a thief upon breaking into my home would be sorely disappointed in what he would not discover. But I do treasure objects that have personal value, such as my royal pendant, earned for my services to His Majesty. That is something to me far more valuable than gold or jewelry. It came directly from the palace; a tenuous but concrete connection between myself and the King. I put it away in that top drawer in 2006 figuring I would bring it out on special occasions.
Last week I finally did bring it out, though not for circumstances I would have ever wished for prior to October 13, 2016. In the shock of those first few days I remembered I had the pendant, so I searched for it, found it, and pinned it to my blackish shirt one morning a few days after His Majesty’s passing.
“You know you’re not allowed to wear that,” the pleasant young teacher told me.
It was the same morning, a few hours later, at a seminar we were attending.
I looked down at my chest. I thought she was referring to my blackish shirt; I got ready to apologize for it not being jet black, but there was a limit to jet black shirts in my wardrobe (that is, two) and today was day three.
Then I realized the pleasant young teacher was not talking about my blackish shirt. She was talking about my royal pendant.
“Apparently it’s been announced that pendants are not allowed to be worn,” she said. “You have to wear black but you can’t wear any commemorative pendants.”
My first reaction was one of surprise. Then I started to smell a rat.
There had been a number of incidents after the passing of His Majesty involving subjects who had been vilified for not displaying the “proper” grieving process. Feelings had been running extremely high and low since October 13, so it was not beyond the realms that for some inexplicable reason, pendants might have been banned.
“Really?” I asked, and the young teacher nodded.
“That’s what I’ve heard,” she said.
Not long after I went to the bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror. It was the perfect opportunity to remove the allegedly offensive pendant. I didn’t. I find words like “apparently” and “they say” and “what I’ve heard” not the strongest of anonymous sources.
The next morning I wore it again … and it happened again.
“Excuse me,” came a voice from beside me. It was one of the hotel staff.
“I’m sorry to tell you this, but they say you can’t wear a royal pendant like that,” he said, motioning to my breast pocket. “It’s not allowed.”
“Who told you this?” I asked.
“That’s what I’ve heard,” he answered. “It’s been online. No royal pendants. Black shirts, yes. Black bows, yes. But no royal brooches.”
Later that day I found myself on Sukhumvit Road. On the street another friendly stranger accosted me and pointed to my broach and said, albeit with a grin: “No! No!”
That was three people in two days.
That night I went online.
There was a staggering amount of information about the proper way to mourn. I always assumed the proper way to mourn was to wail and feel hopeless and flail one’s arms about, but apparently there is much more to it than that. I found a diagram in Siam Rath newspaper under the headline FIVE WAYS TO DRESS IN MOURNING WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE A BLACK SHIRT. It explained, elaborately, what is in and out when it comes to dress in this critical period. Not elaborately enough, though — there was no reference to royal pendants. There were many other web pages devoted to explaining the right method of wearing a black bow, as if anyone needed that to be explained. I was reminded of flight attendants telling me how to buckle and unbuckle a seatbelt.
Finally, a light at the end of the tunnel.
The Office of The Prime Minister announced guidelines for proper mourning. There were a total of 11 points and numerous sub-points. I have to admit I was a little hesitant at first when I scanned the list. Was it going to tell me how to look sad? At what times of the day I could cry? No, of course not. In the end there was nothing sinister about the suggestions, and in fact it was all common-sensical.
It was not until I got way down to point number 10 that I found the answer to my question, which I repeat here:
10. It is permissible to wear royal brooches.
Three days of anxiety were over.
Back around the time I received that royal pendant, civil servants in this country wore yellow to work every Monday as a way of showing their faith and devotion to His Majesty the King. This wasn’t an edict; it was a nation showing their devotion to their King.
At that time, in 2006, I had one student in my adult English class who was a staunch royalist. She was a female government officer in her late 40’s. She was very personable, though precise and rigid, while at the same time demonstrating unflinching loyalty to the King.
And yet she never wore yellow on a Monday.
Her explanation was as stoic and unmalleable as her personality.
“I don’t need to wear a yellow shirt to show my loyalty and devotion for His Majesty,” she said, back upright, lips pursed, eyes momentarily closed. “My loyalty to His Majesty is in my heart, not in the way I dress.”
I admired her for that stance, for it is much more difficult to put loyalty in a heart than it is to don a shirt. I always hoped she wasn’t penalized for her stance in her workplace. She is probably retired now, but I did think of her this week, after fretting for three days. Is she wearing black now? Probably. On the other hand maybe she is not. Either mode of dress is irrelevant to her unflinching loyalty.
This is a time for us to remember His Majesty’s words on Thais living in harmony and mutual kindness, as we traverse through this sad and difficult year of mourning. We all have our own ways to grieve. Mine is by wearing a pendant. Whatever yours is, I’ll accept it.
AN ENGLISH LESSON ON WOMANISING
By Andrew Biggs
I am at the end of my little English lesson. Are there any questions?
“What does ‘womaniser’ mean in English?” tweets one young lady.
Well that certainly came out of the blue. On this overcast Tuesday afternoon I was expecting something a little easier to answer such as the difference between “house” and “home”, or how to translate kreng jai into English.
(The kreng jai question is actually not easy at all to answer succinctly. However I am at an advantage because I once wrote a 16-page essay on it, and keep that essay close by so when asked, I just click on a link, saving me time and making me look as though I know what I’m talking about.)
The “womanizer” question is the fault of the Bangkok Post recently published a page-one story revealing that Thai men are nothing but wanton philanderers.
It needs to be explained, before delving into that sexual can of worms, that my “little English lesson” took place on Twitter, the social media platform that allows you to say anything providing it doesn’t exceed 140 letters.
I am proud to say that while size may not be everything when it comes to womanising, it certainly is in the world of Twitter.
I have a Twitter following of 2.4 million. That puts me right up there at the top of Thailand’s Highest-Ranking Twits — is that what you call them? — in terms of followers. I am wedged between stick-thin Thai soapie actresses tweeting about their appearances at trendy Thonglor nightclubs, and Korean-looking male actors extolling the virtues of some whitening face cream. In any other country it’d be the other way around.
And yet there I am, right up there amongst the stars. I have more followers than Aerosmith and KC & The Sunshine Band combined. I am even more stellar in Australia; while researching my Twitter fame last week it turns out I rub shoulders with Hugh Jackman and Miranda Kerr in terms of “Fastest Growing Australian Celebrities”. Did you ever think, dear reader, that your favorite Sunday columnist would have anything in common with a Victoria’s Secret model?
Donald Trump seems to have resurrected Twitter’s relevance, and he may have invented a new colloquial phrase — “twitter rant” — to describe unbridled fury unleashed through this social platform. Recently it concerned his vice-president Mike Pence, a conservative who finds electro-conversion gay therapy more of a turn-on than gay marriage (don’t you just know he has shares in a cattle-prod company?). Pence went to see a Broadway musical performed by some very talented gays, after which those performers asked him to help unify the country. Trump hated that, demanding the cast of Hamilton offer Pence an apology. One hopes Trump doesn’t jump up and down and stamp his feet in the same way when he gets his tiny hands on the nuclear codes.
Trump uses Twitter to rant. I use it to teach.
The reason I am on the Twitter A-list is not for my private life. It is because I teach English on it. It is one of my daily tasks I look forward to, just for the connection with so many Thai people of all ages. None of my followers cares which trendy nightclub I went to, or whitening facial cream I use. You won’t find me ever tweeting my whereabouts. Those tweets wouldn’t befit a fast-growing Australian celebrity anyway: “All alone on my fourth vodka tonic watching internet porn #pathetic #alcoholnumbsthepain”, etc.
Thus my “little English lesson” I referred to in the first paragraph is actually Thailand’s largest English class as I sit down and, for 30 minutes, explain the vocabulary of the day based on news stories. After which I ask: “Any questions?” and the queries flow in.
Trust the Bangkok Post to throw a spanner into the works.
“70% of Thai men womanise” it blasted across a page-one column last Tuesday. The Thai Health Promotion Foundation revealed findings from a survey of Thai men aged 20 to 35 years, the prime target market of aforesaid whitening face cream.
It appears 72 per cent of Thai men have cheated on their partners. Be careful of taking statistical research on face value: Does this really reveal that 72 per cent of men are womanisers, or does it simply reveal that Thai men are honest? Another survey claimed Thai men cheated on women more than any other country in the world, but I would argue the sample populations of those other countries were just better at lying on survey questionnaires. Perhaps we shouldn’t be admonishing the 72 per cent for being womanisers; we should be reprimanding the remaining 28 per cent for not telling the truth.
Even if it is true, doesn’t it take two to tango? One can assume they are philandering with other women, who have husbands and boyfriends too. Why single out just the men?
But let us return to the question of English, since it is English that has propelled me into the Twitter stratosphere, remember?
It wasn’t difficult to explain “womaniser”; I skirted (to excuse the pun) around more colloquial translations and went for formal words like “philanderer” and “having multiple sexual partners”.
But I didn’t get to the top of the Twitter heap on formalities. Soon I was having to explain “snake in the grass” and “skirt-chaser,” which is why I briefly joined the ranks of Hugh and Amanda in terms of new followers. Second-language learners love vocabulary about sex. It sticks in our brains long after grammar and syntax have faded into neuron oblivion.
“Can we use this word ‘womaniser’ with women?” another follower asked.
What an interesting question. Even in these modern times we refer to men as womanisers but the word can be used both negatively and positively. In fact it is almost neutral with a racy element.
But it does raise the “bachelor-spinster” issue of lexical inequality — no, we cannot use the word with a heterosexual woman, but why is it that the only vocab I can think of for a woman who has multiple sexual partners has but negative connotations?
“Flirt” may be okay but it doesn’t have the same raciness as a “womaniser”. A “cougar” brings age into the equation. A “seductress” sounds like something out of Nana Plaza wearing a black mask and clutching a whip. I suggested “man-eater” but this is still a little too slangy when up against “womaniser”.
The answer may be the same as the one for the question about kreng jai — we don’t have one, but we should.
Actually the Bangkok Post committed one of the fundamental no-no’s of journalism with this story; it buried the lead.
Technically it gets let off with just a warning, since it did select the raciest part of the story to put at the top, but there is a more sinister statistic lurking towards the end of the news story. That is, that one-third of Thai men believe married women are “owned” by their husbands.
This is the single most dangerous way of thinking that leads to violence and murder, especially among the less-educated, and needs to be addressed and prioritized way ahead of the frequency of spousal cheating, or the search for a neutral definition of a female womaniser. Even more outrageous: Where do they get off “owning” someone they’re cheating on?
But we are wading into serious waters here.
My “little English lesson” got spiced up thanks to the Bangkok Post and a curious female follower of mine on Twitter. It pushed me into the realms of Hugh Jackman and Miranda Kerr. For that, I have a lot to thank the Bangkok Post, not to mention Thailand’s burgeoning mass of philandering males.